Ever wondered what it’s like when both you and your partner are working from home? Let me give you the inside scoop!
- You basically have a personal assistant on hand. Need a quick proofreader? Check. Someone to bounce ideas off? Double-check. Your own IT support and coffee maker? Yes, please! Who needs interns when you have a partner?
- Texting? That’s so last year. Unless one of us is off on a work trip (and that’s rare), we’re usually never more than three hours apart. Plus, I ditched my cell phone ages ago—nothing beats the joy of not dealing with annoying texts!
- Your thoughts become vocalized. In an office, I’d never spout out, “Seriously? Rice pilaf farts again?!” But at home, those kinds of comments fly freely, and he knows exactly what I’m talking about because he’s the one who ate the rice pilaf too.
- You might turn into a bit of a bore. I miss the juicy office gossip! My conversations revolve around myself, my partner, and our daughter. So, when someone asks, “What’s new?” I can only respond, “NOTHING.”
- Date nights might feel less exciting. The last time my husband suggested a date night, I honestly exclaimed, “With you?” It’s not that I love him any less; it’s just that spending all day together can make the idea of a date feel a bit redundant.
- Lunch dates, however, are fantastic! I absolutely adore those spontaneous midday outings with my husband. They feel like a mini vacation, and let’s be real—matinee movies are a perfect excuse to sneak in some romance without worrying about strangers nearby.
- You find yourself listening to his work stories, whether you want to or not. While office chatter might be annoying, at least it’s on topics I find engaging. With my husband, though, I’m often in “uh-huh … uh-huh” mode, trying to pretend to understand his academic discussions.
- You’ve always got a cheerleader nearby. Sure, we might be on top of each other—just not in a super romantic way! When we upgraded our living space, I insisted on separate office rooms. Freelancers often juggle tight budgets, making it tough to find spacious work zones. But having my partner by my side to support one another through the ups and downs is priceless.
For more insights on navigating life with a partner at home, check out this post on our other blog over at Home Insemination Kit. And if you’re looking for tips on boosting fertility, Make A Mom is a great resource!
In summary, working from home with your partner can be a mix of fun, boredom, and unique challenges. You’ve got a built-in team member but also need to find ways to keep the spark alive amidst the daily grind.