Ah, the joys of parenting three little ones! Today, let’s explore the ten most delightful aspects of having three kids. And just a heads up: I can’t think of a body part that comes in threes, so let’s go with something a little more relatable—like eyes! After all, you might feel like you need a pair in the back of your head to keep up with all the action. So, without further ado, here are the ten best things about being a parent to three kids:
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Never a Dull Moment
Your kids will never feel lonely. I once told my eldest that as an only child, I often felt isolated. She replied, “I feel lonely when I’m awake, but Clara and Levi are still snoozing.” Sorry, kiddo, but that’s like comparing a leisurely stroll to a NASCAR race! Until you’ve set up your stuffed animals for a tea party, don’t talk to me about loneliness, dear sibling. -
Fighting Options
When the two older ones squabble, they can always find a new target—like the baby. I thought this would lead to more peaceful resolutions, but it seems to just complicate things further! -
Hand-Me-Down Heaven
The girls are practically the same size, making it easy for them to swap clothes. And the baby benefits from unisex hand-me-downs too! That cute denim jacket? Total win for everyone involved! -
Built-in Excuses
Want to bail on plans? Just mention you have three kids under five, and the world understands. Sorry, can’t make it to the party; I’ve got a toddler meltdown on my hands! This excuse works wonders for everything from messy houses to lost touch with old friends. -
Cuteness Overload
There’s always one kid who’s being particularly adorable. As soon as one starts acting up, the others suddenly feel the need to shine. My middle child’s sweetest “I love you, Mommy” moments seem to happen right after putting the oldest in timeout. It’s like they thrive on each other’s antics! -
Built-in Playmates
Say goodbye to the days of solo playdates! With three kids, there’s always a partner for games. My daughter never has to worry about finding someone to be Elsa to her Anna, because they’ve got it all covered, with the baby swapping roles effortlessly! -
The Power of Numbers
When we hit the playground, it’s like the arrival of a rock star group! No one dares to mess with three kids, especially when the oldest is fiercely protective of her younger siblings. -
Monotony? What’s That?
Just kidding—some days feel monotonous. But each child has their unique quirks, and you can find a little excitement in switching your attention from one to another. Keeps things interesting, right? -
No Parenting Advice, Please!
Most of my friends with larger families are too busy with laundry to offer unsolicited parenting tips. And honestly, who would dare give advice on managing three kids under five to someone who’s successfully done it for over a year? -
Sibling Love
At the end of the day, the best part of having three kids is witnessing the bond they share. Hearing my daughters call each other “best friends” or my son being dubbed “the best baby ever” makes every gray hair and added stress worth it. So, keep the love coming, kiddos!
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In summary, while raising three kids comes with its own set of challenges, the joys and perks are numerous. From constant companionship to unique personalities, it’s a wild ride filled with love and laughter!