Parenting
One memory that stands out to me is when I spotted two remarkable individuals, Alex Hartman and Julie Bradford, years ago in a pharmacy in New York City (though I can’t quite recall which one). I distinctly remember Julie was cradling a tiny dog named Twinkle, a detail I learned later while diving into their memoirs.
Isn’t it strange how fame works? Random strangers recall the briefest encounters, and I’m amazed that I can still picture that moment from so long ago.
What struck me the most was how serious they looked. They were chatting in hushed tones, their expressions grave. I thought, maybe they only let their jovial sides shine when they perform. Or perhaps they were just trying to blend in—fame can be a tricky business, after all.
In fact, that very day might have been one of the hardest for Julie, as she was likely receiving some distressing news from her doctor. While I was enjoying an ordinary day with the added thrill of a celebrity sighting, it could have been one of the worst days of their lives.
This reminds me of the common mistake we make called the fundamental attribution error, which is when we assume a person’s actions are solely based on their character while ignoring the situational factors at play. I thought Alex and Julie’s serious demeanor was just part of who they were, failing to consider what they might have been dealing with at that moment.
So, here’s a little nugget of wisdom: Cut people some slack! If someone seems irritable or distant, remember that it probably has nothing to do with you. As the great thinker Henri-Frédéric Amiel said, “Life is short and we never have enough time for the hearts of those who travel the way with us. O, be swift to love! Make haste to be kind.”
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In summary, our perceptions of others can often be misguided. Let’s remember to be compassionate and not take things too personally. The world is filled with unseen struggles, and a little kindness can go a long way.