During a recent online chat with fellow parents navigating the journey of raising children with autism, one mom expressed her frustration at hearing comments from parents of neurotypical kids about how “lucky” we are to have access to free summer programs. I get it—being told such things can feel downright infuriating. Honestly, I’d love to trade those complaints for the challenge of finding a great camp! In response, I suggested she tell them, “Absolutely, I’m embracing the perks of autism!” This sparked a conversation about the silver linings in our unique experiences. Here are seven benefits that often go unnoticed:
- Convenient Bus Arrivals: One of the best perks is having the bus stop right at my driveway! I can watch my child hop on the bus from the comfort of my home, sometimes still in my pajamas and sipping my coffee. It’s a sweet moment that I cherish.
- Incredible Therapists: Along this journey, I’ve encountered some of the most dedicated and skilled professionals working with children. They provide invaluable support when I’m feeling overwhelmed, answering my endless questions and guiding us through challenges. I’m forever grateful for the amazing speech therapist who worked wonders with my child!
- Supportive Online Community: The online parent community has been a lifesaver. Whether I’m up at 4:30 AM or just need to vent about a rough day, there’s always someone ready to listen or share a laugh. It’s comforting to connect with others who truly understand.
- Child Study Team: My child has an entire team at school dedicated to his success. These meetings are like a think tank, where we brainstorm strategies to support his learning and development. It’s empowering to know we are all working towards the same goal.
- Exploring Alternative Treatments: As a parent, you often find yourself willing to explore every possible avenue to help your child. Researching various treatments that may have once seemed far-fetched has become part of our journey. With insurance covering visits, it’s worth a try, and it even influences my personal health choices!
- Cherishing Small Victories: It’s the little moments that truly take your breath away. Whether it’s a word spoken or a social interaction, these milestones—though sometimes difficult to measure—mean everything. Embrace them and never let anyone diminish their significance.
- Enhanced Problem-Solving Skills: This experience has sharpened my ability to approach situations from multiple perspectives. It’s a skill that benefits not only my child but also my everyday life, allowing for greater creativity and adaptability.
So yes, there are perks to raising a child with autism. However, please refrain from telling autism parents how fortunate we are to enjoy “free camp” in the summer.
For more insights on the rewarding aspects of parenting an autistic child, check out this article. And if you’re considering at-home insemination, Make a Mom offers excellent products for that journey. Additionally, WebMD provides a fantastic resource for understanding different treatments and options.
In summary, while raising a child with autism comes with its own set of challenges, it also brings unique joys and perspectives that make the journey worthwhile.
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