Growing up in the vibrant 80s, I remember the thrill of MTV’s music videos, the clever humor of You Can’t Do That on Television, and of course, my trusty Trapper Keeper. I sported green hair and wore combat boots in high school, but fast forward to today, and you’ll find me whipping up cookies, pies, and brownies like a pro. Sorry, Betty Crocker! Motherhood has changed me in more ways than I could have imagined—my values, habits, and even my perspective on the world around me. Recently, I revisited some childhood favorites, and they hit me in a totally different way. Here are my top 7 films that motherhood has reshaped for me:
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Adventures in Babysitting
As a kid: This movie was the ultimate thrill ride—babysitting, college crushes, and a wild road trip with the hilarious Darryl.
As a mom: This film is a nightmare scenario! It’s precisely why I never leave the house without my kids. Shudder. -
Stand By Me
As a kid: The idea of a no-adult adventure with friends was thrilling, especially with River Phoenix in the mix.
As a mom: Yikes! The peril these kids faced was terrifying—trains, junkyard dogs, and the ever-looming threat of danger. I might need therapy after this one. -
Beaches
As a kid: I adored Bette Midler and dreamed of Broadway stardom while singing along to the soundtrack.
As a mom: The heartbreaking fate of Barbara Hershey’s character ruined this film for me. I couldn’t even think about watching it while pregnant—not a chance. -
The Breakfast Club
As a kid: This was the epitome of cool—raw and relatable with memorable quotes (even if they were edited for TV).
As a mom: Wait, are schools still skipping shop class? I worry my gifted kid might become a danger to himself! And wow, they actually smoked in the library? What were we thinking? -
The Karate Kid
As a kid: Having a mentor teach me karate was a dream come true.
As a mom: I would NEVER let my sons hang out alone with an old, single guy! And what’s with the expensive gifts? Major red flags! -
Back to the Future
As a kid: Doc Brown was the ultimate eccentric friend, and who didn’t love the idea of time travel?
As a mom: Seriously, what was up with the old man hanging out with a teen? And the thought of my kids seeing my awkward high school self? No, thank you! -
The Goonies
As a kid: This film was all about adventure, friendship, and treasure hunts! Pure magic.
As a mom: Where on earth were those kids’ parents? I mean, wouldn’t there be an Amber Alert by the time Chunk called for help? And cave kissing? The Fratellis? I just can’t!
Motherhood isn’t just an aspect of life; it’s a complete transformation. You live it, breathe it, and it shapes your very being. I can’t help but wonder how different Gene Siskel’s movie reviews would have been after becoming a parent.
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Summary: Motherhood has a profound way of reshaping our perspectives, even on beloved childhood films. What once brought joy and excitement now evokes anxiety and concern as we navigate the challenges of parenthood.