As summer fades and the back-to-school season rolls in, it feels like a fresh start akin to New Year’s Day. Like many parents, I find myself making promises: we’ll be punctual for school, I won’t misplace any permission slips, and I’ll prep lunches the night before (yeah, right!). However, this year, I’m adding some fresh commitments to my parenting playbook, and with a bit of wisdom and experience under my belt, I feel ready to tackle them head-on.
1. I Will Embrace the Power of NO.
After 12 consecutive years of having kids in various school levels, I’m done with the eager, volunteer-driven phase of my parenting journey. I’ve traded my PTA president dreams for the companionship of fellow parents in their 40s, who are just as ready to step back. We’re the ones quietly opting out of the chaos, and guess what? We’ve learned that saying “No” is liberating. So, to all you enthusiastic young moms out there, feel free to take the reins on the class parties—I’ll be enjoying my yoga class instead.
2. I Will Allow My Kids to Own Their Mornings.
Yes, I know this sounds ambitious, but I’m determined to let my kids take charge of their own morning routines. I’m well aware that without my usual morning pep talks and frantic organizing, chaos might reign. Yet, I’m committed to stepping back, trusting them to wake up, feed themselves, and get ready for school without my constant reminders. It’s time for them to step up—and who knows, maybe they’ll surprise me!
3. I Will Support My Teens in Their Own Futures.
When my oldest entered high school, I had a vision of the perfect academic path for him, not considering his own aspirations. However, I’ve realized he’s capable of exploring his interests and passions—like his newfound desire to teach and love for English. While I know this may change over time, I’m learning to let him take the lead on his educational choices. It’s time for me to let go and embrace the journey he chooses.
4. I Will Resist the Urge to Complete Their Assignments.
We all recognize a parent-made science project when we see one, right? I’ve learned the hard way that stepping in to save the day only hinders my kids’ learning experiences. With four children, I’ve found it natural to let them face their own deadlines. So, if they come to me with a last-minute project panic, my response will be, “Sorry, buddy, you’ve got this!” It’s a tough lesson, but better to learn it in fifth grade than in high school.
5. I Will Cherish My Youngest Child’s Elementary Years.
As the “over it” mom, I need to ensure my youngest doesn’t feel the weight of my fatigue. He deserves the same excitement and celebration of milestones as his older siblings. I’m committed to making his school experiences special, whether it’s dressing up for “Saint Day” or being present for his Christmas play. I’ll document these moments with enthusiasm because every first is precious, and I might just find that the best experiences were saved for last.
In conclusion, these resolutions serve as a reminder that parenting is a continuous journey of growth and learning, both for us and our kids. Each year brings new opportunities to adapt and enjoy our unique family experiences.
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