Who doesn’t adore a girls’ night out? From the endless popcorn and laughter during our first sleepovers to the glamorous grandmas rocking their poodle hairstyles at the bingo hall, bonding with our girlfriends is a timeless tradition we cherish. However, as I’ve come to realize, my approach to these rare outings has morphed significantly since becoming a parent to two little ones under two.
Pre-Children Prep for a Night Out:
- Crank up some upbeat tunes to set the vibe.
- Pour myself a generous glass of wine—because why not?
- Take my time browsing through my closet, contemplating the perfect outfit. A few options might even make it to the try-on phase.
- Enjoy a luxurious shower—exfoliating, shaving my legs, and washing my hair.
- Slather on moisturizer, apply my makeup, and style my hair to perfection.
- Refill that wine glass and turn the music up a notch.
- Touch base with my girlfriends to see their plans and outfits.
- Revisit my closet for the ultimate outfit, shoe, and accessory combo.
- If I haven’t treated myself to a mani/pedi, I’ll quickly paint my nails.
- Sip my wine while grooving to the music, waiting for my nails to dry.
- Call a cab and check emails while I wait.
- Grab my keys and stride out the door.
Ah, the bliss of that pre-night out ritual! Who wouldn’t want to stay home after such a delightful experience?
Now, with Kids in Tow:
- First, I’m on a mission to locate the remote, just so I can snag 20 minutes of quiet.
- Time to whip up a snack for the kids.
- The closet search begins, but I’m in panic mode for anything that fits and lacks a maternity panel.
- Shower? Forget it! I’ll make do with deodorant and some dry shampoo.
- A quick swipe of mascara and some concealer for those pesky zits, even though I’m well into my 30s.
- Start dinner while keeping an eye on the clock for my husband’s return.
- Call my husband at work to urge him to come home ASAP.
- As he walks in, I tag him in for the kids’ dinner—thank you, teamwork!
- Apply nail polish as hastily as possible, praying no one notices the mess on my fingers and toes.
- Oh wait, I’m not off duty yet! Time to do the kids’ PJs, brush their teeth, and get bottles ready.
- After hugs goodbye, I’m left with a bit of snot on my skirt and smudged polish—charming, right?
- Make a break for the door, but not without blowing a kiss to the little faces pressed against the window.
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In summary, the transition from pre-kids to post-kids girls’ nights is a wild ride filled with laughter, love, and a bit of chaos. While the preparation may have changed dramatically, the joy of connecting with friends remains constant.