Great mothers have an infinite capacity to love their children.
Some great mothers choose to breastfeed—whether for just a few days, several weeks, or even years—because they believe it’s the healthiest option, because it feels right, or simply because they’ve got the support they need to make it work. And let’s be honest, sometimes it’s just easier. But why should anyone question their choices?
On the flip side, great mothers also formula-feed—be it occasionally or all the time—because they want to, they have to, or maybe breastfeeding just didn’t go as planned. Sometimes the pump is more of a tease than a helper, and really, the reasons are theirs to keep.
Great mothers whip up organic meals when they can, but also serve up fish sticks when that’s what their kids will actually eat. They dig through the pantry and make meals out of whatever they can find because sometimes, that’s just the reality of parenting.
Some great mothers head out to work because they need to provide, and they want their kids to see women thriving in the workplace. Others stay home, embracing the role of full-time mom without any shame, believing it’s what’s best for their families.
Great mothers bake cookies, and others may burn them into hockey pucks. Some have gardens full of organic veggies, while others are wading through piles of laundry, wondering how it all got so chaotic.
Nobody’s perfect: great mothers might yell—sometimes they apologize, sometimes they don’t. They know there are moments when a firm voice is needed, and they also know when they need a break, even if they can’t always take one.
Great mothers show up for their kids, but life happens, and sometimes they can’t be there. They strive to make it up when they miss those moments. They care for their children and, when things get tough, they seek help. They might even face the heart-wrenching decision of letting go if that’s what they believe will be best for their kids.
Great mothers stumble and make mistakes, but they lift each other up when that happens. They may forget to offer support in the heat of the moment, but deep down, they care about each other and the whole motherhood journey.
At the end of the day, being a great mother boils down to one simple truth: they love their children fiercely.
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In summary, motherhood is a complex and beautiful journey filled with love, choices, and a community of support.