I found myself tossing and turning last night, a swirl of thoughts racing through my mind. I replayed the day’s events over and over, focusing on one specific moment that stood out: my little one, nestled in bed upstairs, the cause of my insomnia.
Yes, that’s the one. She’s the reason I’m wide awake tonight.
I reflected on the challenges we faced, the words exchanged in frustration, and I whispered a prayer for both of us.
Just the night before, I was lost in thoughts about the soaring costs of college, staying awake an extra hour lost in contemplation. Two nights prior, a tension headache kept me up, the weight of my to-do list looming large. And let’s not forget the week before, when the flu took hold of my second grader, leaving me to watch over her with one eye open.
Every morning, I wake to a notepad beside my bed, filled with reminders, worries, and prayers. This morning’s note read, “Call dentist. Tell daughter to stop hoarding gummy bears.”
Parenting is a never-ending cycle of worry and wonder, where we’re always questioning if we’re doing things right. The fatigue we feel isn’t just physical—it’s a bone-deep weariness that comes from the endless laundry, dirty dishes, and constant demands. Can you relate?
Some days, all we really need is permission—to step back from the worry, the doubts, and the unknowns. To simply breathe and say “no.” To carve out time for ourselves and set down our heavy burdens.
So here it is, my dear friends: permission to rest. To quiet your mind and reflect. This holiday season, let’s remember that perfection is overrated and that it’s okay to take a break.
As we dive into preparing for gatherings, cooking, and making memories, let’s not forget to include ourselves on that list. We’re experts in giving, often putting our children first—saving the last cookie for them or offering our warm hoodie when they’re cold at the park.
Giving thanks may feel like just another task on our never-ending list, but this week, take a moment for yourself. Put your feet up, trade worry for peace, and remind yourself that you’re doing a great job.
Happy Thanksgiving!
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Summary
This letter to mothers acknowledges the struggles of parenting and emphasizes the importance of self-care and rest during the busy holiday season. It encourages mothers to take time for themselves amidst the chaos and offers permission to let go of perfection.