By: Sarah Thompson
Updated: Jan. 8, 2023
Originally Published: Jan. 10, 2021
While chatting online with some fellow parents navigating the challenges of raising kids on the spectrum, one mom shared her frustrations about hearing from parents of typical kids just how “lucky” we are for getting access to free summer programs. Lucky? I can relate! I often feel like I’m ready to throw a virtual punch when I hear that. Honestly, I’d love to trade places and have the “problem” of finding a good summer camp. So, I told her to respond with a cheeky, “Sure, autism brings its perks!” And that got us thinking about the bright side of our unique journey.
1. Convenient Bus Stop
Talk about a sweet deal! My driveway serves as the bus stop. I can sip my coffee—often still in my pajamas—while watching my kid hop on the bus just a few feet away. Drop-offs are just as easy! I simply open the door and enjoy some gossip on my phone while my pup lounges beside me.
2. Access to Amazing Therapists
I’ve met some incredible professionals dedicated to helping kids like mine. When the going gets tough, I have a team of experts to turn to with my endless questions and concerns. Big shoutout to the magical speech therapist who finally got my son to eat! Seriously, I think I’d marry her if I could!
3. Supportive Online Community
Oh boy, have these folks saved my sanity! When my child decides to wake up at 4:30 AM, I can count on others to be online for some late-night commiseration or to share the latest on must-watch shows—“Did you see the latest episode of that series?!”
4. Child Study Team
My child has a whole squad working for him at school! It’s like having an autism think tank that gets things done during our meetings. Talk about a support system!
5. Exploration of Alternative Treatments
As a parent, you often find yourself diving deep into research for various treatments to help your child thrive. You might even consider options you would have dismissed years ago. If insurance covers those visits, why not give them a shot? This quest for solutions also impacts my own health choices!
6. Cherishing Small Victories
It’s the little things that take your breath away and make you tear up. Whether it’s a tiny step forward or a moment that feels monumental, cherish it! Don’t let anyone downplay those victories—they’re big deals!
7. Creative Problem Solving
I’ve learned to view challenges from multiple perspectives. This ability to adapt has not only been enlightening for my child but also for my own life.
So yes, there are definitely perks to having an autistic child. Just remember, please don’t ever tell an autism parent how fortunate they are to get “free camp” in the summer!
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Summary:
Raising a child with autism comes with its own set of challenges, but it also offers unique perks. From convenient bus stops to dedicated therapists and a supportive community, there are many advantages to embrace. Small victories and creative problem-solving can bring joy and insight into both the child’s and parent’s lives.