As I age, I’ve noticed some changes—my backside has become wider and flatter (thanks to my love for blogging, maybe) and my hands show signs of time. I didn’t think my bust could shrink further, but it has. I occasionally spot a grey hair, and those laugh lines have become more pronounced. After the glorious days of nursing, adjusting to these changes has been bittersweet. While I may not be turning heads like I used to, I find joy in the little things—like a well-timed curse word that raises a few eyebrows. But you know what? I’m feeling pretty good about myself these days, especially in my mid-thirties, embracing my mom bod. Having kids has surprisingly improved my body image, and I’m content with the journey that got me here.
1. Embracing My Strength
When my partner is at work and I’m home with my little ones, I’m the tallest, fastest, and strongest person around. As someone who used to feel petite, this shift is refreshing. I might not be a genius, but I can definitely give my kindergartner and preschooler a run for their money in trivia!
2. A New Perspective on My Figure
I’ve battled with my pear-shaped figure for ages. However, seeing my three-year-old daughter, who resembles a mini version of me, helps dissolve years of self-criticism. If she’s perfect just as she is, then I must be too—after all, I’m exactly how I was meant to be. Blame it on God and a few too many chocolate bars!
3. Scars and Stretch Marks
Scars, stretch marks, and loose skin tell the story of motherhood. They might not be conventionally beautiful, but they represent a unique journey—a masterpiece in its own right.
4. Nurturing Life
My body has nurtured life, and that’s something to be proud of. Even if my figure looks a bit like it has seen better days, I respect what it has accomplished.
5. The Power of a Haircut
My hair has been in a ponytail for ages. But when I finally treat myself to a fresh haircut, I walk with newfound confidence, feeling like I stepped out of a beauty magazine. It’s amazing how a simple haircut can make such a difference!
6. Comfort Over Style
I’ve never cared much for heels; they may add height, but they’re uncomfortable and hard to walk in. Now that my daily wardrobe consists of playdate attire, those heels are happily shelved.
7. Sweet Compliments from My Kids
My kids shower me with sweet compliments like, “You’re so cuddly!” and “You give the best hugs!” When I jokingly ask my son what his friends think of me, he sweetly replies, “Every kid thinks their mom is the best.” It melts my heart every time.
8. Affirmations from My Daughter
My daughter is full of praise. Whether it’s “Good job, Mom!” or “You make the best soup (even if it’s from a can),” her affirmations keep my spirits high. Winning in my own little competition feels pretty fantastic.
9. Celebrity Comparisons
Since my daughter is young enough to see me as a celebrity, I leave magazines around featuring famous brunettes. She often points out the similarities with stars like Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Lopez—instant confidence booster!
10. Surrounded by Love
I’m surrounded by love. My children see my imperfections as part of the mom they adore, and my partner appreciates me just the way I am.
Despite the wear and tear from motherhood, I feel better about myself now than I ever did before having kids. If you’re interested in learning more about at-home insemination options, you can check out resources like IVF Babble or explore Make a Mom for expert advice. For more tips on home insemination, visit this helpful link.
In conclusion, my experience as a mother has transformed my perception of my body and self-worth in ways I never expected.