You know that moment when you share with someone that you have just one child over the age of four? The reaction can be priceless! Friends and family are generally understanding, but it’s the random person in line at the grocery store whose face contorts in confusion as they blurt out, “When are you planning to have another?” They almost seem to hold their breath, waiting for the response that will put their minds at ease—something like, “Oh yes, we’ll soon be joined by a sibling!”
But when I casually mention that our family of three is just perfect as it is, I can practically see the gears turning in their heads, followed by a slight twitch of disbelief. Here are ten real gems I’ve been met with:
- “Aren’t you worried she’ll be lonely?” (Sure! I keep her locked away to avoid social interaction.)
- “I knew an only child once, and they were spoiled rotten.” (Oh, really? Because I’ve never met a bratty sibling before.)
- “You’ll probably change your mind when she gets older; she won’t want to hang out with you.” (Yep, that’s the goal—to make sure my child is the cure for my loneliness.)
- “Are you unable to have more?” (If I slap you on the back, will that help your scrunched expression?)
- “What about adoption?” (Fantastic idea! I hear Walmart has a kid aisle now!)
- “Well, I have five children, and it’s been so rewarding. Just got back from visiting my youngest—he’s in jail, but learning a lot!” (Is that lane five open? I think I need to move on.)
- “When you pass away, she’ll have a huge burden sorting through your stuff.” (How’s the sibling rivalry over your dad’s will going?)
- “Your daughter probably only connects with adults, huh?” (Yep, that’s why she takes forever to leave her friends at school!)
- “Does she get whatever she wants? It must be tough going to Target.” (Oh, I didn’t realize being a parent of one meant I couldn’t say “no.”)
- And my absolute favorite: “What if something happens to her?” (Hmm? I hadn’t thought of a backup plan. Should I stock up on kids like they’re on sale?)
Choosing to have one child was a conscious decision for us. We understand our limits and prioritize our long-term quality of life. Our trio feels complete, and that’s what truly matters. We’re not missing puzzle pieces; our little family is just right for us!
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In summary, our family of three is perfectly tailored to our needs, and we embrace every moment without the pressure to conform to societal expectations.