Ah, summer break! The time of year when parents of college students both eagerly anticipate and dread their young adult’s return. It’s a blend of excitement, hope, and just a pinch of anxiety. You want to avoid overwhelming them with questions or, heaven forbid, dishing out unsolicited advice. It’s like a delicate dance where parents and kids find their rhythm after months apart.
Here are some insights I’ve gleaned as a parent of a college student:
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Let Them Catch Up on Sleep
The first few days? Just let them snooze! Trust me, nobody enjoys a cranky college kid. Late-night escapades are par for the course in campus life, and they might need a bit of time to adjust back to the “real world.” -
Stock the Fridge
Make sure your pantry is filled with tasty snacks! College food can be questionable at best. Freshly baked cookies or their favorite snacks from home will be a hit. Who can resist a warm brownie, right? -
Don’t Be at Their Beck and Call
While it’s great to spend time together, giving them a little breathing room is essential. They may want to chill, catch up with friends, or even just lounge in front of the fridge. No need to feel guilty about it! -
Indulge Them, but Let Them Do Their Own Thing
Spoiling them is fun, but don’t do everything for them. Let them grab their own snacks or start their own laundry. It’s all about letting them feel at home, not like a guest. -
Give Them Space
This one’s tough. After months apart, you might feel the urge to cling. But space is key to maintaining harmony. Give them the room they need to unwind without feeling smothered. -
Limit Your Questions
You might be tempted to interrogate them about college life, but try to keep it casual. Sometimes, the best stories come out when you least expect them—like when they’re raiding the fridge at midnight! -
Sneak in the Affection
When the moment feels right, don’t hold back on the hugs and kisses. Those little moments can mean the world, especially after a long time apart.
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In summary, the key to a successful summer with your college kid is balance: provide love and support, but remember to let them maintain their independence.