A few years back, I went through a phase where skirts became my go-to wardrobe choice. Growing up, I was more of a tomboy, favoring comfy t-shirts and jeans over frilly dresses. Yet, in my late 20s, after a little inspiration from the Internet, I thought it was time to embrace my femininity. I donned skirts, pretty blouses, and heels, determined to fit the traditional mold of “pretty.”
And you know what? I enjoyed it! I liked feeling feminine and pretty. But deep down, something felt off. It was as if I was wearing a costume that didn’t quite fit. Strangers complimented my outfits and my hair as it grew long, reinforcing the idea that short hair wasn’t feminine enough. My partner appreciated the change, too, which added a nice touch. But despite the compliments, I felt like an imposter in my own skin.
Then came motherhood, and everything changed. I discovered my true self—the me who sports a vibrant red faux hawk and keeps her hair super short. I find comfort in blue jeans and black tank tops, even if they make my pale skin look even paler. My true self opts for dark eye makeup (on those days when I choose to wear it), and knee-high black boots are my go-to. I proudly declare, “No thanks!” to anyone who thinks I should conform to societal norms just because I’m a woman.
When I express myself authentically through my hair, style, and makeup, I feel like an absolute badass. This isn’t just about looks; it’s about empowerment. When I feel fierce, I tackle my day with confidence and strength. If I catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and think, “You look awesome,” it elevates my mood and radiates positivity to my family and friends.
Now, I’m not suggesting you toss out your dresses and heels—unless that’s what makes you feel good! The key is to find what resonates with you and embrace it wholeheartedly. Whether it’s a bold haircut or a favorite outfit, do what makes you feel like the warrior you truly are.
For me, it’s my fabulous faux hawk. For you, it could be something entirely different. Whatever it is, own it without fear of judgment. Life is too short to worry about fitting in with the crowd. As a mom, I’ve got no time for that!
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Summary
Embracing motherhood helped me discover my authentic self—a fierce, confident woman who relishes her unique style. Instead of conforming to societal expectations, I’ve learned the importance of expressing myself freely to feel empowered. Whether it’s through fashion choices or self-acceptance, every woman should embrace what makes her feel like a badass.