Updated: Aug. 22, 2023
There’s an age-old adage that goes, “If Momma isn’t smiling, no one is smiling.” Whether it’s a timeless truth or just something catchy for a cute kitchen sign, the message rings true: Moms are the heart of the household, and our mood significantly affects the home environment. When I’m feeling good—say, after a refreshing shower or a little “me” time—everything seems to flow smoothly. The house is tidier, I’m more patient, and dinner is more likely to be a culinary win. But on days when I’m feeling less than stellar, it can quickly turn into “let’s forget this” mode, and things start to fall apart—and trust me, that grumpiness can spread like wildfire.
So, how can you sprinkle a little joy into Momma’s day? Here are six surefire tips:
- Share the Load: The magic words that every mom loves to hear? “I’ll take care of dinner.” Alternatives like “Let’s order pizza” or “Cereal for everyone!” also work wonders. When life feels like a juggling act, it’s a relief not to have to worry about dinner, especially when the kids are likely to turn their noses up at your healthiest creations.
- Pick Up After Yourself: We all appreciate a tidy space, but let’s be real—no one enjoys cleaning up. So, pitch in! If you leave a mess, take a moment to clean it up. Whether it’s throwing away wrappers or putting your dishes in the dishwasher, a little effort goes a long way. And if you’re feeling particularly generous, fold and stow away a load of laundry to really brighten Momma’s day!
- Respect Closed Doors: When Mom is behind a shut door, it’s not an invitation for a knock. Doors serve a purpose: to provide privacy. If we wanted to share our bathroom experiences with the world, we’d go to a public restroom! So please, keep those doors closed and let us have our moments of peace.
- Plan Ahead for Guests: Nothing disrupts a mom’s day like surprise visitors. A little heads-up goes a long way—trust me! It helps us prepare, whether that means putting on real pants or cleaning up the chaos in the kitchen. If you’re ready for guests, that’s great, but double-check with Mom first!
- Show Off Your Manners: We take pride in our families because we’ve poured our hearts into nurturing them. If you really want to make Mom proud, show good manners in public. A compliment from a stranger about how polite our kids are is like music to our ears. And for our partners: be present and supportive. Teamwork goes a long way in ensuring everyone behaves well.
- Give Thanks: Motherhood can often feel like an unappreciated role. We don’t expect constant praise, but a little recognition every now and then goes a long way. Think about the roles we fill: chef, chauffeur, nurse, teacher… the list goes on. A simple “thank you” for the clean clothes or homework help can melt our hearts. Toss in a hug, and you’ll see Momma light up like never before.
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In summary, keeping Momma happy isn’t rocket science. A little consideration, respect, and gratitude can go a long way in creating a harmonious home. When Mom feels appreciated, everyone benefits—because a happy mom equals a happy family.