Though our little one, Max, is just three years old and has a lifetime of learning ahead, he’s already mastered some valuable lessons that many of us, including my husband, might benefit from revisiting. Here are a few gems I think my husband could learn from our pint-sized teacher.
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Compliments Can Work Wonders
Recently, I found myself exasperated and asked Max, “Why won’t you sit still?” His response? “Because, Mommy, your hair is pretty!” Just like that, my annoyance evaporated. A simple compliment can lift spirits and brighten the day—something my husband could benefit from remembering. -
Apologize First, Ask Questions Later
When I’m upset, a heartfelt “I’m sorry” followed by a hug can work miracles. Max, bless his heart, knows this and often offers his apologies freely. My husband, however, tends to want to investigate the situation first, which doesn’t always lead to a happier wife! -
Don’t Hesitate to Ask for Help
While my husband often wrestles with problems alone, Max has no qualms about asking for assistance. He understands that there’s no shame in seeking help, and I think my husband could learn from this mindset. -
Cuddles are Just for Cuddles
Max often seeks affection with no strings attached. I sometimes wish my husband would do the same instead of thinking every hug is an invitation for something more. However, I must admit, his enthusiasm still makes me smile! -
Be Honest About Mishaps
Max proudly announces when he has a diaper issue, while my husband might prefer to blame “Not Me” for his little accidents. Owning up to it would certainly help, and maybe a heads-up before the fact would be nice too! -
Yearn for Quality Time
Max views me as the ultimate superstar, wanting to be by my side even during work. My husband, on the other hand, often retreats to his man cave. While I understand the need for alone time, I’d love for him to want to be near me just for the sake of it. -
Embrace the Joy of Fun
Max has a talent for switching to play mode in an instant. I’d love for my husband to join in on our impromptu dance parties—because, let’s face it, we all need to unwind and enjoy life a bit more. -
Show a Bit of Empathy
When I’m in pain, Max is quick to comfort me with a sweet song and a kiss. My husband, however, tends to think I should tough it out unless there’s a visible injury. A little sympathy goes a long way! -
Stay Tough, But Not Overdramatic
Max is resilient, rarely complaining even when he faces bumps and scrapes. Meanwhile, my husband might act as if he’s auditioning for a soap opera every time he stubs his toe. A little less drama would be refreshing! -
Express Gratitude Freely
Max says thank you even when it’s not needed, while getting my husband to acknowledge a meal feels like pulling teeth. A simple “thanks” can make a world of difference! -
Share Laughter and Smiles
Max finds joy in the simplest things and laughs easily. I often wish my husband would share his infectious laugh more often—perhaps once we catch up on sleep, we can all lighten up together! -
Cheer for Each Other
Max is my biggest fan, celebrating every little achievement. I’d love for my husband to share in that enthusiasm, rather than treating my achievements like a chore to be dealt with. -
Start the Day with Joy
Max bounces out of bed each morning, filled with excitement. My husband, however, takes a bit longer to shake off his morning grumpiness. At least he makes my coffee—thank goodness for that!
In conclusion, while we all have our unique traits, there’s definitely something to be said for the lessons we can learn from our little ones. Sometimes, it’s the simplest behaviors—like showing affection, expressing gratitude, or simply enjoying the moment—that can enhance our relationships and brighten our days.
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