I am quite vocal about LGBTQ+ rights. Whenever I express my views, I often hear the same questions: “Why do you care? You’re a married straight woman. How does this affect you?” Sure, I could respond by saying I want my LGBTQ+ friends to enjoy the same rights I do, or that it’s simply the right thing to support. Both of those are accurate. But if I dig a little deeper, my feelings reveal a more self-interested reason.
Because my daughters might be part of the LGBTQ+ community.
Just look at Emily, who adores dinosaurs! And don’t even get me started on Mia’s obsession with cars. Dolls and princesses are collecting dust while trains and building blocks take center stage. Sure, I might be leaning into stereotypes, but the truth is, I have no idea who they will fall in love with when they’re ready. And honestly, that’s not something I can control, nor do I want to.
What I can’t accept is the thought that my daughters could face discrimination for who they love. That’s just not right. This is why I am so passionate about LGBTQ+ rights.
If my daughters decide they want to serve their country, they should be able to do so without having to hide their true selves. As a mom, the last thing I want is for them to feel they have to compromise their identity for acceptance. They are perfect just as they are, quirks and all, and I want to support them fully.
If one of my girls chooses to marry a woman, you bet I want to throw the largest, most fabulous wedding imaginable! I want it to be legal in all fifty states because every couple deserves that moment to celebrate their love. I’ll be right there, helping with the details, whether it’s for poofy dresses or stylish tuxes because love is love, and it should be celebrated!
And if my daughter and her partner want to adopt a child, heaven help anyone who tries to hinder that process. I will never understand how adoption can be denied because of a family’s non-traditional setup. What even defines a “traditional” family these days? Every family is unique, and love should be the only factor that matters in determining someone’s capacity to adopt. I’ve got future grandbabies to spoil, and nothing will stand in my way!
Selfish? Maybe. But my advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights is rooted in ensuring my daughters’ happiness. Sure, they might grow up and marry men just to tease me, but who knows? What if one of my future grandchildren identifies as LGBTQ+? That’s where I’m going with this.
LGBTQ+ rights impact everyone, whether we realize it now or not. Eventually, it will matter to you and your family, too. I’m a straight woman who genuinely cares about LGBTQ+ rights, and it all comes down to love and acceptance.
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In summary, my commitment to LGBTQ+ rights is deeply personal and rooted in love for my daughters and their future. It’s about ensuring that everyone has the right to love and be loved, no matter who they choose.