As a mom navigating life in a wheelchair with three energetic boys, I certainly attract my fair share of curiosity. Kids often approach me with questions like, “Why can’t you walk?” or “Are your legs broken?” Initially, parents can be taken aback, feeling embarrassed by their child’s innocent inquiries. But once they see my warm smile, the mood shifts.
I typically start with a straightforward answer: “My legs don’t work anymore.” But, being kids, they usually follow up with “Why?” It’s almost like a rite of passage for them to dig deeper. I often scrunch my face in mock contemplation, as if their question is the most profound thing I’ve ever heard—because to them, it really is.
To explain, I liken my nerves to the cord of a lamp. “Imagine my cord was cut, so now it doesn’t work,” I tell them. “Those nerves send signals to your arms and legs to help them move, but mine don’t get those signals anymore.” Most kids look at me with wide eyes and simply respond, “Oh, okay.” It’s a familiar exchange, and yet, each time, I feel a sense of pride knowing I’m helping a child learn about different experiences in life. We all have our unique stories, but we share a common desire to connect.
To all the parents out there: Encourage your kids to ask questions. Don’t hesitate because you’re worried about what others might think. You’d be surprised—many people are more than happy to share their stories, whether it’s about their bright blue hair or the scar on their face. Curiosity is a sign of caring, and it opens the door to understanding.
Now, how do I keep up with my three boys while seated in a wheelchair? It’s a question I hear often, and honestly, it’s not one that can be easily answered with words. I just do it. If you’re curious, take a look for yourself!
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In summary, my journey as a mom in a wheelchair is filled with moments of joy, curiosity, and learning. Each conversation with children reinforces the importance of understanding our differences, while also celebrating the common ground we share.