“Hey, when Leo turns three, he’ll start talking just like Emma!” exclaimed my little boy, Sam, with a proud grin.
I paused, contemplating whether or not to correct him—after all, Leo, who doesn’t have any known disabilities, will likely be chattering away well before he hits the age of three. But addressing why Emma may not be talking at the same time would lead us to the topic of Down syndrome.
I chuckled at my own hesitation. It’s not like we avoid discussions about disabilities in our home! With my own hearing challenges and our regular chats about disabilities, I felt a bit silly for hesitating. Yet, when it comes to Emma, Sam’s little sister, the conversation feels different.
Taking a deep breath, I turned to him. “You know, Sam, Leo will probably start talking even before he’s three. In fact, he might say his first words when he’s two or maybe even one!” Sam nodded, pretending to understand, but I could tell he was a bit lost. So, I continued, “Emma has Down syndrome, sweetie.”
His eyes lit up with recognition. “Oh, just like my buddy Jake!” he replied enthusiastically. “Exactly! They both share Down syndrome, which means they have an extra chromosome, a special little piece of information in their bodies. This extra bit can influence how they learn and grow, including when they might start talking.”
“My friend Jake can talk!” Sam chimed in. “Yes, he can! But just because both he and Emma have Down syndrome doesn’t mean they are the same person. Think about you and other kids your age. You’re all boys who are four years old, but you each have different interests, right? Some of your friends might not even enjoy dinosaurs like you do! It’s similar with Emma and Jake. They have Down syndrome in common, but they are unique individuals.”
At that point, I could tell I had lost him—his thoughts had drifted to a girl he likes in preschool who enjoys playing dinosaurs with him. Classic Sam!
I let the conversation flow naturally, feeling relieved that we were addressing Down syndrome openly rather than brushing it under the rug. I think it’s crucial to approach discussions about disabilities—especially ones that are part of your family—honestly and casually. Rather than waiting for the perfect moment, weave these conversations into everyday life. Kids are like little detectives, always picking up on what’s unspoken, so it’s important to be truthful.
Here are a few bite-sized truths about Down syndrome to keep in mind:
- It’s simply an extra chromosome—easy to understand!
- Down syndrome looks different for everyone; it’s not a one-size-fits-all issue.
- It can affect how someone learns or develops, but it doesn’t define them.
- Remember, Down syndrome isn’t something to feel sad about; if you view it as a tragic situation, your child will sense that negativity.
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In summary, being open about disabilities like Down syndrome can foster understanding and acceptance in children. By integrating these conversations into daily life, we can help kids navigate differences with empathy and awareness.