As the nights grow longer and the air turns crisp, I’m caught in a moment of reflection about what this festive season means to me. Now, you might be wondering, what’s a gal like me, with a Jewish background, doing pondering Christmas wishes? Well, yes, I proudly celebrate Hanukkah. So, in theory, Christmas shouldn’t have much to do with my life, right?
But let’s be real: that’s just not the case. The twinkling lights, the cheerful reindeer, and the jolly Santas are everywhere. And honestly? It’s all quite enchanting. Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, or something entirely different, I have a deep respect for your special occasion. After all, it’s your moment of joy.
I completely appreciate the warmth of family gatherings during this time. And honestly, how can one not admire the strength and happiness people find in their faith? My curiosity about how others celebrate their traditions is boundless. I want my kids to see beyond the cozy walls of our home and embrace the vast, beautiful world around them.
However, I do find it a bit peculiar when people toss around “Merry Christmas” without a second thought, and then get upset when someone responds with “Happy Holidays.” Why is that? It’s simple: not everyone celebrates Christmas.
Take my daughter’s first-grade class, for example. It’s a vibrant mix of cultures. Just last week, she rushed home, all aglow with excitement, having learned about Eid from her classmates. She embraced the experience, shared stories, and appreciated the diversity. But guess what? She didn’t tell anyone “Happy Eid,” nor did she insist on “Merry Christmas” for all. She gets it: everyone celebrates differently, and that’s what makes life interesting.
Grace and kindness go hand in hand with understanding that people come from various backgrounds. Politically correct or not, can we all agree that it’s a good principle to embrace?
From my own experiences as a teacher, I’ve decorated Christmas trees, participated in Kwanzaa celebrations, and even cooked Hanukkah latkes. I invited families to share their traditions, and through those exchanges, we learned so much about one another. Each tradition was honored and celebrated, and that’s how it ought to be everywhere.
It really isn’t hard to not assume others’ beliefs or get defensive when someone opts for a more inclusive greeting. I’m not bothered when I hear “Merry Christmas.” I’ve taught my kids the beauty of this sentiment. At the core, it’s all about wishing well for each other. Isn’t this season just magical?
So, when I say “Happy Holidays,” please know that I’m not aiming to offend. I’m simply recognizing that everyone has their own unique celebrations and beliefs. And in my heart, I believe that’s truly what matters.
So, here’s a warm and cheerful wish: Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Eid, or simply… Happy Holidays to you!
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In summary, this holiday season is a time for kindness and understanding. Embrace the diversity of celebrations and wish each other well, whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, or simply Happy Holidays.