Hey there, my wonderful little ones! Let me get something straight: I’m not apologizing for being a working mom. A lot of moms might feel differently, but not me!
When I head out each morning, you’re not in tears because you know that amazing adventures await you while I’m away. I love that you get to have fun, even if I can’t be there to witness it. And guess what? Your Nana, Gigi, and Pops are some of your best buddies because they help take care of you while I’m busy chasing my career dreams. Not every kid gets to have such a close relationship with their grandparents, and I think that’s pretty special.
Because I’m working, you get to spend quality time with your awesome dad. It’s fantastic that you’ve formed bonds with your caregivers too—more people in your life to love and who love you back is always a win! Plus, you get to see both parents tackling chores around the house. Since we both work, we share those duties, which means you get a front-row seat to teamwork in action (and some of that teamwork might just resemble a circus act sometimes!).
I might have less time with you, but I know that the moments we do share are what really matter. Quality over quantity, right? There’s a big difference between being in the same room and truly being present. And hey, research shows that you, my daughter, are more likely to pursue higher education and earn a better paycheck thanks to me working. And you, my son, will probably be more involved in caring for your own kiddos one day because of this!
You’ll get to attend good schools and have a backyard that’s perfect for play. Most importantly, I’m happy to have my career alongside being your mom. A fulfilled mom means a better mom, after all!
Now, don’t get me wrong—I do worry sometimes. I fret about you feeling envious of those kids whose moms stay home. I dread the thought of missing a soccer game or a concert. And yes, I even worry that one day you might be on a couch talking to a therapist about how I let you watch too much TV while I was working on a deadline (oops!). I know many of my friends stay home, and I hope you don’t think you’re the only ones with a working mom. Remember, nearly 70 percent of moms with kids under 18 are in the workforce—so you’re not alone!
But mostly, I’m filled with gratitude. I’m thankful you’re seeing both parents break traditional gender roles, which means you’ll likely feel free to choose your own paths. I’m also grateful for our family nearby who steps in when we need a hand, because not every family has that support.
And at the end of a long day, when I kiss you goodnight and you give me a big, sloppy smooch in return, followed by an “I love you, Mommy,” it reminds me that my job doesn’t change how much we love each other.
So remember, my little ones: my working doesn’t mean I love you any less. It means I’m showing you the beauty of balance in life.
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In summary, working moms like me are paving the way for future generations, ensuring that children grow up with diverse experiences and strong familial bonds, all while balancing work and love.