I noticed you as we entered the restaurant. My toddlers, ages 7 and 4, were weaving through the crowd, bumping into waitstaff, while my 8-month-old wiggled in my arms, fussing for a bottle he had just had before we left the house. Your looks exchanged with your partner were unmistakable; a silent agreement of “Oh no, kids!” plastered on your faces.
I caught sight of you tensing up in your seats, preparing for the ruckus that was bound to come from our table. I saw you grimace when my 4-year-old threw a tantrum over a chair dispute that had begun the moment we stepped out of the car. Your eye rolls were practically audible when my baby dropped his pacifier, rattle, and even the salt and pepper shakers—my older boys, in a frenzy to “help,” turned the scene into a chaotic wrestling match.
I felt the waves of irritation radiating from you when my 7-year-old pleaded for a third Shirley Temple, and we stood firm, leading to a delightful five-minute symphony of whining, stomping, and table thumping. I noticed your heads shake in disapproval when my 4-year-old began shrieking for more bread after declaring he didn’t want any at all, especially after the last piece had vanished into my oldest’s mouth.
Then came the grand finale: my 8-month-old, in an unexpected turn of events, decided to share his mashed carrot concoction with the world, and I could see your hands fly to your mouths as the smell wafted over. Yes, I saw you, the couple who looked on with disdain. I saw you, and you know what?
I’m totally with you. These kids can be a complete handful, and I’m not ashamed to admit it. Honestly, I’m ready to pull my hair out over here.
Maybe you mistook my approach to your table, where I jokingly suggested we should all take a shot or two—maybe a Redheaded Slut or a Cement Mixer for all I cared. You looked at me like I was mad! And when I quipped about possibly selling one of my children if the complaints continued, I was only half-joking.
I simply wanted to know your secret to this rare evening of peace: Did you hire a babysitter? Did you orchestrate an elaborate escape plan? I was ready to trade my sanity just to know how you managed a night out—anywhere would do!
And when I dipped my finger into your dessert, I was just trying to lighten the mood. I’m a parent who’s desperate for a night where the only mess I have to deal with is my own.
So, to the couple who stared with disgust at my children, I saw you, and if you’d just whisk me away to a quiet corner of the world, I’d gladly trade my left nipple (the good one) for a moment of peace. Seriously, I’m not picky; I’ll go anywhere!
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Summary
The author recounts a chaotic restaurant visit with her three children, highlighting the judgmental stares from a couple nearby. She humorously reflects on the struggles of parenting and the desperate need for a break. While expressing her frustrations, she offers a light-hearted take on the challenges of raising young kids, ultimately inviting understanding from others in similar situations.