This year, my Mother’s Day was decent—actually, it was kind of enjoyable. I spent my morning volunteering at church, wrangling the energetic three to six-year-olds, which meant I had to be there by 9 AM. Afterward, we had a lovely picnic at a local winery, with stunning weather to boot. I even managed to do a load of laundry and whip up salads for both myself and my mom before heading out.
However, as I scrolled through Facebook, I noticed friends showcasing their extravagant Mother’s Day weekend plans. While they were soaking up the full glory of the day, I was busy splitting my time with my mom. And I’ll admit, I felt a twinge of annoyance.
I mean, I already share my bed, meals, and bathroom time with my kids. Shouldn’t I get at least one full day dedicated to me? But then reality struck: I have a mother too, and I should appreciate her.
Many of my friends have lost their mothers, while others live far away or don’t prioritize spending time with their daughters and grandkids. I’m incredibly grateful for mine, and she definitely deserves a day of recognition. Still, wouldn’t it be nice if we both had our own special days—especially while I’m still in the thick of parenting and wiping tiny butts?
Well, good news! Grandparents Day rolls around on September 7 this year. I had to look it up because I knew it existed but couldn’t recall the date. Officially recognized by Congress in 1978, it’s about time we give it the attention it deserves.
This August, I’m planning to collaborate with my kids’ schools to create lovely crafts for Grandparents Day. The school year will be fresh, and the kids will likely be eager to help out, especially since they won’t be burnt out from end-of-year activities.
And next year? I’m switching my volunteer day at church so I can fully enjoy Mother’s Day—because let’s be honest, it should be all about me!
So, fellow moms, are you with me on this? Let’s embrace Grandparents Day as a chance to celebrate our kids’ grandparents and ensure we get our much-deserved time to shine as well.
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Summary:
Moms should embrace Grandparents Day as an opportunity to celebrate their own parents while also carving out time for themselves. It’s a win-win situation that acknowledges the importance of family bonds and allows mothers a day to focus on their own needs.