Dear Emily, the Chili’s server who brightened my day,
“I just wanted to say how proud I am of you for breastfeeding in public. It takes real courage!”
You might not realize how much those words meant to me. On that particular day, my faith in humanity was hanging by a thread, and you, without even knowing it, breathed new life into it.
What you didn’t know is that we had traveled a whopping 40 miles to reach the nearest grocery store, making our monthly shopping trip feel like an epic adventure. Our baby hadn’t nursed since we left home that morning, and this errand was also a family outing for my husband and our three little ones. I was feeling a bit grumpy, thanks to some not-so-friendly interactions with other shoppers.
But then there you were, smiling as you seated us that Sunday afternoon. Your service was not just prompt; it was infused with warmth. After we finished our meal, you came over with our check, and I couldn’t believe my ears when you thanked me for breastfeeding in public. You shared how you noticed me feeding our baby shortly after we arrived and how it made you feel proud to witness something so natural, yet so often criticized. You even expressed your frustrations about seeing anti-breastfeeding sentiments online. I was genuinely taken aback.
Here you were, at just 18 years old, showcasing a wisdom that I would expect from someone much older. In contrast, moments earlier, I had encountered an older gentleman who responded to my friendly smile with a curt, “I was here first,” completely missing the point of kindness and courtesy. I had anticipated a simple exchange of smiles, but instead, I faced rudeness. Perhaps it was just a rough day for him, or maybe he had been worn down by the actions of others. Regardless, it left me feeling disheartened, making me wonder how such behavior sets a tone for the younger generation.
Then you appeared, a refreshing contrast. Thirteen years younger and without kids of your own, yet you took the time to appreciate my choice to breastfeed publicly. Instead of me showing gratitude for your excellent service, you turned the tables and thanked me. Little did you know, your kind words lifted my spirits and rekindled my dwindling faith in humanity.
So, thank you, Emily, the Chili’s waitress who thanked me for breastfeeding in public. You truly made a difference!
Warm regards,
Your fellow breastfeeding advocate, Sarah
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Summary:
In a heartfelt letter, Sarah expresses gratitude to Emily, a young waitress at Chili’s, who uplifted her spirits by appreciating her choice to breastfeed in public. Sarah shares the context of her challenging day, contrasting Emily’s kindness with an earlier encounter with rudeness. Through Emily’s encouragement, Sarah’s faith in humanity is restored.