It all began after we exchanged our vows, tossed some rice, and celebrated with gifts. After the long white satin dress was cleaned and tucked away, we found ourselves in a tiny apartment with just a few belongings. Our “table for two” was often the couch, complemented by an old wooden box that we affectionately called a coffee table, where two dinner plates would rest. Cooking together, washing dishes side-by-side—it was idyllic for just the two of us.
After a long week of work, weekends were dedicated to each other. We ran errands, exercised when we could, caught up on TV shows, and simply enjoyed one another’s company. Honestly, it feels like a distant memory now.
For seven wonderful years, it was all about us. Then, the adventure of parenthood began, transforming our lives in the most beautiful way. Experiencing the joys and challenges of raising children with someone I adored was a dream come true. I knew he would be a fantastic dad. One child turned into two, and we added a few furry friends to the mix—making our household lively and full of love. We dove headfirst into this parenting journey, embracing the incredible chaos that accompanied it.
Fast forward twenty-eight years, and we find ourselves once again at that table for two—not on the couch, but at our sprawling dining room table that can host a small army. Our son is off pursuing his college dreams while juggling work and friends. Meanwhile, our 17-year-old daughter is busy with school, work, and her besties. This is precisely what we envisioned for them all those years ago: a life filled with health, happiness, and busy schedules.
Now, in the quiet moments when it’s just the two of us, I reflect on the countless little reasons I said “yes” long ago. It’s crucial to maintain that balance between being a “Mom” and “Dad” while cherishing the “you” and “I.” Because eventually, we always return to our table for two—and I wouldn’t want to share it with anyone else.
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In summary, life has its twists and turns, but the journey through love, family, and the inevitable return to that cherished table for two is what makes it all worthwhile.