The last time I grabbed coffee with Gretchen Rubin, I was completely captivated by a fun quiz she led me through. It helped me uncover which of her Four Tendencies—Obliger, Questioner, Upholder, or Rebel—I fell into (spoiler: I’m an Obliger!). We dove into how this tendency influences my habits. Her latest book, Better Than Before, is brimming with insights on how to cultivate positive habits and break free from the negative ones based on our personality types. This book is like a game changer; realizing your tendency and understanding those of others can illuminate how we navigate our daily lives.
In honor of her book launch, we decided to flip the script and created our own fun quiz, the Mid Questionnaire, to help us get to know her a little better.
Mid Questionnaire
- What’s a skill you’d love to master?
I’ve secretly wanted to start a podcast for years—just wait and see! - Is there a destination on your travel bucket list?
I’ve been yearning to revisit London; it’s such a fantastic city. - Who deserves a thank-you note from you? (Here’s your chance!)
I owe a heartfelt thank-you to Chris Matthews, who not only encouraged me to start a podcast but also made the process so enjoyable. My new adventure, “Happier with Gretchen Rubin,” alongside my sister, has been a blast, and I owe it all to him! - Picture yourself at 12 years old—what were you up to on a Friday night?
Wasn’t Friday night the time for The Love Boat and Fantasy Island? That’s where I’d be! - Who did you craft your first mixtape for, and what was on it?
Confession time: I made my first mixtape for myself, filled with tunes perfect for running. Discovering a new running song was always a highlight. - What’s one family story you’re tired of hearing?
Every Christmas, my sister and I chose our own ornaments. I still have mine! But there was that time I accidentally shattered her “partridge in a pear tree” ornament while trying to rearrange our collection. Now it’s become a lighthearted family tale that we laugh about. - What advice would you give your 25-year-old self?
Just be yourself—be Gretchen! - What’s your signature dish?
I whip up scrambled eggs like no one else! - Do you have a personal motto or theme song?
My motto is simple: “Be Gretchen.” Plus, “The days are long, but the years are short” resonates deeply with me. My one-minute video, “The Years Are Short,” seems to strike a chord with many others too. - What’s a show that always lifts your spirits?
Oh, The Office (the American version)! It never fails to make me laugh.
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In summary, Gretchen Rubin’s insights into personality, gratitude, and even her culinary skills offer a refreshing perspective on how we can better understand ourselves and our habits. From her love for scrambled eggs to her travel dreams, she encourages us to embrace our true selves while navigating the complexities of life.