Today, I’m off to see my daughter in Portland, and it’s hard to believe she’s graduated from college and is ready to take on the world. As I was packing, nostalgia hit me hard, and I found myself reflecting on how quickly time flies. How is she already 22?
Amid my packing, I recalled one of my proudest moments as a parent, and suddenly those tears turned into a sense of accomplishment. It took me back to when my daughter, Lily, was in elementary school. We were in the kitchen after dinner, and she wouldn’t stop giggling about a certain breed of dog—she thought it was hilarious that she could say “Shih Tzu” without saying something more inappropriate.
After hearing “Shih Tzu” for what felt like the hundredth time, I finally snapped.
Me: “Lily, that was cute at first, but enough already!”
Lily: “Enough what? Saying ‘Shih Tzu’?”
Me: “Yes, enough!”
Lily: “So, no more saying ‘Shih Tzu’?”
Me: “If you say it one more time, you’re going to bed at 8:30.”
At this point, my son, Max, who was a couple of years older, started to pay attention.
Lily: (giggling) “You won’t really send me to bed at 8:30!”
Max’s eyes widened, and I felt the pressure. I realized I had a history of empty threats. My kids knew that their gadgets were safe, and there would be no missing out on their favorite shows.
Me: “Yes, I will, Lily. Don’t test me.”
In that moment, I realized the weight of my words. Should I uphold my promise and teach them about consequences, or back down and let them think they could get away with anything?
In that brief moment of hesitation, I saw Max subtly nodding.
Me: “Lily, you’re going to bed at 8:30.”
Lily: “You’re joking! I won’t say it again!”
Me: “No joke. I’ve warned you enough.”
Lily: (tears streaming down her face) “How can you do this to me?”
Max couldn’t hide his grin. “Nice job, Mom! I didn’t think you’d actually do it.”
That night became a pivotal teaching moment for all of us. I learned that keeping my word was essential, and my children understood that actions have consequences. From that day on, I became a more consistent parent, and my kids took me seriously—so did I.
Ironically, Lily now works with dogs, specializing in obedience training. When I visit her, you can bet she’ll emphasize the importance of consistency and follow-through in her job. I guess the lesson truly stuck!
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In conclusion, parenting is a journey filled with lessons, and sometimes it’s the small moments that teach us the biggest truths.