Do you have a set of rules for how your kids use their cellphones, or are you just winging it? This is the dilemma faced by Lisa Thompson, a mother of three, as her 12-year-old daughter prepares to get her first cellphone. After saving her own allowance, she’ll contribute her share to the family plan with her future earnings. While the family has established rules for other tech—like no screen time during the week—cellphones are still a vast frontier.
Currently, the only rule in place is that Mom gets access to the phone’s passcode and any social media passwords. She also provided some valuable insights on digital etiquette and safety:
“We’ve had a ton of discussions about how everything online is public, and just because you trust your friend not to share a text or screenshot a snap, can you really trust the older sibling who might hop on the phone? Anyone who’s been caught in the web of an unexpected video or a poorly thought-out tweet knows how quickly things can spiral out of control. It’s been quite an education for our family on the risks of living in this digital age.”
However, a larger concern than simply managing screen time is how the cellphone will change family interactions. Lisa’s son expressed worry that his sister would become more absorbed in her phone and less engaged in family conversations. She took this opportunity to initiate an important dialogue: “I don’t want you to be glued to your phone and ignore us.” There was a moment of silence as he processed her words. “Do you think I do that to you?” he asked, which hit her like a ton of bricks.
As technology advances and kids grow, families must continually redefine their boundaries. One crucial piece of advice for parents? Always think twice before hitting “send.” If you’re looking for more information on family dynamics or tips for managing technology, check out our other post on intracervical insemination.
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Summary
Establishing sensible cellphone rules for tweens is crucial for maintaining family connections. As kids get their first phones, parents should set boundaries, discuss online safety, and ensure technology doesn’t interfere with family interactions.