Dear Resilient Mom,
As Mother’s Day approaches, you have been on my mind. I know this day can evoke a whirlwind of emotions for you. Having been a single mom for nearly five years myself, I understand the complexities of this holiday. My best friend faced similar challenges for seven years, and my aunt has navigated single motherhood for almost the entirety of raising her three children.
Mother’s Day can feel rather awkward when you’re doing it alone. Without a partner to dote on you, encourage your kids to treat you to breakfast in bed, or shower you with gifts, the day can seem unfair. You absolutely deserve all the love and pampering that comes with this special occasion.
You might also find yourself feeling a twinge of sadness for your child. You may wish they had someone to help them create the perfect gift for you. There might be worries that your sons will not learn how to care for their future partners, or that your daughters may struggle to accept the love of their husbands. It’s painful to grapple with such emotions on a day dedicated to honoring you.
You may feel anger, isolation, or inadequacy. Perhaps you have a supportive circle of friends and family who care, but when the day winds down, the responsibilities still rest squarely on your shoulders. Or maybe, like my aunt, you’ve spent several Mother’s Days when your children were too young to remember to celebrate you properly. The day passes, much like any other.
To all the single mothers out there, I want to remind you that you are not alone. Even if you have no support network, even if you’ve faced the loss of your partner, or even if the father of your children has chosen to step away, you are not isolated in your journey.
On this Mother’s Day, I genuinely hope you get some well-deserved rest. I hope you receive a thoughtful handmade card or craft from school. May those who love you see you and shower you with the appreciation you deserve. I wish for your children to give you extra hugs, snuggles, and smiles. Maybe treat yourself to a movie or a manicure—bring the kids along! The other patrons will understand because it’s your day. And if you prefer, serve yourself your favorite meals (no more chicken fingers) and bake a cake, letting the kids help with the decorating (but keep an eye on the sprinkles!).
Even if the day doesn’t unfold as you hope, I want you to internalize this message: You are a remarkable mom. You hold a unique and irreplaceable role in your child’s life. You have the strength to navigate this journey.
Happy Mother’s Day!
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In summary, you are a strong and irreplaceable figure in your child’s life, deserving of recognition and love.