Let’s be frank here—I’ve been labeled a “crazy woman” more times than I can count. Unfortunately, I believe most women have faced that same demeaning tag at some stage in their lives. I can accept the “woman” part of that description—I’m no angel—but I refuse to be dismissed as crazy for expressing emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness, simply because they don’t align with someone else’s expectations.
So let’s put an end to calling women crazy. It’s neither charming nor humorous, and most importantly, it’s just plain incorrect. What some may perceive as craziness is often a woman exhibiting confidence. There are countless situations where women are expected to keep quiet, whether it’s during a sports event or a political discussion. When a woman shares an opinion that deviates from what the majority believes, her insights are frequently brushed aside as her being “off her rocker.”
The Courage to Voice Thoughts
Here’s the truth: it takes immense courage for women to voice their thoughts in environments where they often face being interrupted, talked over, or dismissed entirely. When you label her as crazy, you might just be unable to cope with her confidence and her refusal to tolerate nonsense.
Passion vs. Craziness
What you might label as craziness is often a woman being passionate. You know the type—she’s been present at every rally since the recent election, engages actively with her local representatives, and advocates fiercely for those who often go unheard. Some may call her crazy for her relentless pursuit of justice and equal rights, but she is not crazy; she is a brave and passionate fighter, dedicated to making a difference.
Being Vocal and Assertive
Sometimes, what you see as craziness is merely a woman being vocal. Yes, it’s true that women can command a room with their voices, and this is often viewed as disruptive or annoying. If a woman refuses to tone it down, she may earn the label of crazy simply for not conforming to outdated notions of what it means to be “polite.” Unfortunately, that’s where we find ourselves today—a place where women often have to be loud and assertive to ensure their voices are heard.
Invalidating Feelings
It’s disheartening to realize that a single phrase, like “crazy woman,” can invalidate our feelings and opinions, especially when they challenge the status quo. We’re told we’re being overemotional, and our valid concerns are dismissed as hormonal. That needs to change. We’re determined to be heard. If raising our voices is what it takes to compel you to listen, then so be it.
Reconsider Your Words
And let’s be clear: in this day and age, if your sole remark about a woman is to call her crazy, particularly if you’re attributing it to her menstrual cycle, it’s time to reconsider your words. Such comments are not only childish but also demonstrate a lack of respect. A woman’s menstrual health is private, and unless you’re her doctor, it’s none of your business.
Choose Your Words Wisely
You can choose to describe women as confident, strong, passionate, or relentless. Just stop using the term crazy every time we challenge you with our brilliance.
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Conclusion
In summary, let’s challenge the notion that women should be labeled as crazy for expressing themselves. Emotions like passion, confidence, and assertiveness should be celebrated, not stigmatized. It’s time to recognize women for their strength and courage instead of dismissing them with outdated labels.