In the midst of packing up our home, I found myself surrounded by cardboard boxes, a much more appealing alternative than mediating yet another dispute between my children. As I pulled the final box from the back of the closet, a cascade of memories tumbled out—photos from our college days, handwritten letters, and mementos from unforgettable spring breaks. This box was a treasure trove of laughter and camaraderie shared with my dearest friends.
While these memories reside in that box, our journey certainly didn’t end there. We began our adventures in dorm rooms, but now our connections are maintained via voicemails, emails, texts, and those rare occasions when we can finally meet in person.
As mothers, it’s all too easy to lose ourselves in the day-to-day chaos of parenting. The demands of laundry, caring for sick kids, carpooling, and meal prep can make it tempting to neglect friendships. However, the challenges we face—whether related to children, careers, or relocating—should not be viewed as reasons to drift apart, but rather as moments to invite our friends closer.
There was a time when we let too much time slip by between us. We made excuses and waited for the “right moment.” But eventually, we realized that we couldn’t afford to postpone our friendships. We needed to actively engage in this journey together. Motherhood didn’t weaken our bonds; it fortified them.
You’ll always be my girls. I will always lend an ear, share in your tears, and embrace joy with you. I will be the friend who stands by your side through every high and low.
As a child, I would sit on my grandfather’s lap, where he once said, “If you have five true friends in your lifetime, consider yourself fortunate.” I remember thinking five wasn’t a lot, but as an adult, I understand the wisdom behind his words. I call them my best friends—women with whom I can share laughter until tears flow and shed tears until we burst out laughing. These are my girls.
No matter where life takes us, no matter the distance or the circumstances, you will always be my friends. Girlfriends help us rediscover the parts of ourselves that may fade away during motherhood. Together, we create a space where vulnerability thrives, revealing truths that often remain hidden from the world.
We uplift each other, instilling confidence and providing support for life’s next steps. We navigate the challenges and weighty moments together, discussing our fears, including the dreaded imposter syndrome, while our friends remind us that we are anything but ordinary. I often find myself worried that we may not create memories as wonderful as those we are currently living, yet somehow, we always do.
After our latest girls’ getaway, as we gathered our bags by the car, tears flowed freely as we expressed how much we cherished one another. A woman in a car nearby observed us and smiled, recognizing the essence of friendship that we all long for.
As we parted ways at the airport, I knew we would soon be swept back into the whirlwind of parenting. The leisurely mornings spent over coffee and the late-night chats with too many glasses of wine would be temporarily replaced by our busy lives. Still, I was certain of one thing: nothing could sever our friendship. You’ll always be my girls, just a phone call, email, or text away.
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Summary
The journey of friendship can endure through the trials of motherhood and distance. As we navigate the complexities of life, the connections we share with our best friends can provide the support and joy we need. Celebrating these bonds, we realize that true friendship remains a constant source of strength and laughter, no matter the obstacles life throws our way.