“Ordinary day, allow me to recognize the gift you are. Let me cherish you, learn from you, and appreciate you before you fade away. May I not overlook you in pursuit of some elusive, ideal tomorrow. Let me embrace you while I can, for the future is unpredictable. One day, I may find myself yearning for your return, digging my fingers into the earth, burying my face in a pillow, stretching my body, or reaching for the sky.” – Inspired by Mary Jean Irion
Motherhood comprises countless days, a blend of joyful and challenging moments, but predominantly filled with just “ordinary” days. These are the days marked by routines, nap schedules, and the ever-present messes that come with raising children. They are filled with the sounds of laughter and tears, tickles and tantrums—normalcy in parenting comes with both chaos and enchantment.
Yet, it’s easy to become disillusioned with the monotony of these ordinary days. The chaos can feel overwhelming, the tantrums can test our patience, and the daily grind can wear us down like a slow drip of water. Nights spent calming little ones or mornings filled with frantic shoe searches can feel exhausting. We may often wish to fast-forward to a more tranquil time, dreaming of that elusive “perfect tomorrow.”
I find myself caught in that cycle frequently. While tidying up for the umpteenth time, reminding my kids to pick up after themselves once again, or answering calls from them when they should be nestled in bed, I sometimes wish for a break from the relentless demands of family life.
However, amidst the fatigue, I pause to take a mental snapshot of my ordinary day, reminding myself that there will come a time when I might long for these very moments.
Consider the struggles of a single parent I once knew whose only child faced an inoperable brain tumor. Reflect on the days they spent together following the diagnosis, the painful treatments, and ultimately, the heart-wrenching loss. She would have cherished a normal day more than anything.
I think back to the emotionally charged weeks during my sister-in-law’s battle with cancer, when our days felt anything but ordinary. I remember the impact of my uncle’s suicide on my young self, which transformed my perception of normalcy forever.
And then there are those enduring war, famine, or living in poverty, seeking even a hint of normal life. Those facing sudden grief or trauma often yearn for the simplicity of an ordinary day.
Thus, even with their challenges, I find gratitude in my ordinary days. Acknowledging that while it’s valid to express frustration, it’s equally important to appreciate the blessing of what we deem “normal.”
Let’s celebrate our ordinary days for the gifts they are. Let us learn from them and express thanks for their presence in our lives. Instead of wishing them away, we should embrace them, for we never truly know what tomorrow may bring.
“Ordinary day, allow me to recognize the treasure you are.” Indeed, let us honor that sentiment.
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In summary, while the daily grind of motherhood can be exhausting, it is essential to cherish the ordinary days. They may be filled with chaos, yet they hold invaluable moments that we might miss if we rush through life.