As an aspiring minimalist, my seasonal cleaning ritual usually plays out like this: I daydream about pristine drawers, uncluttered countertops, and airy rooms. Then I confront the harsh reality of our excessive belongings. I lose my cool. I start barking orders at my family to just get rid of some stuff. Soon, I recognize the futility of it all. I resign myself to the fact that my home will resemble a tornado’s aftermath at a toy store for the next decade or so. I mutter to myself and give in.
I can almost predict the timing of these “Everything must go” episodes. There’s the pre-holiday purge, fueled by the dread of the oncoming influx of unnecessary items, followed by the post-holiday panic of “Where on Earth are we going to store all this?” Then comes the springtime “Everyone else is doing it” attempts at decluttering. Not to forget the moments of despair after binge-watching home improvement shows and realizing my house is far from magazine-worthy. And of course, there are the frequent hormone-induced explosions of frustration: “Why am I the only one doing anything around here?”
No matter the catalyst, the outcome is the same. I begin with lofty aspirations and a bright-eyed enthusiasm. I cheerfully proclaim, in a voice reminiscent of a perky cheerleader, “Okay, everyone! Time to clean! We’re going to declutter and donate! Ready, set…let’s go, team!”
My family stares at me like I’ve lost my mind, then chimes in with the classic, “But Mo-ooom, do we have to?”
Yes, my beloved hoarding offspring, you do.
Trash bags emerge from the cabinets, and boxes are heaved up from the basement. We spend what feels like hours (though it’s probably more like minutes) sorting through mountains of junk, filling bags for the trash and boxes for donation. Books find their way back to the shelves, and clothes are neatly folded into drawers.
Yet, it doesn’t take long before the remnants of poor decisions resurface to mock me. The broken hockey set, an overwhelming collection of baseball cards, and that ridiculous robot I splurged on during a pre-holiday panic. What was I thinking?
Before I know it, I’m drenched in sweat, the house looks messier than ever due to all the sorting, and we’re all on edge. Clearly, the only logical solution is to pack up and move.
While the kids are absorbed in long-forgotten toys they rediscovered in the depths of their closet, I’m hit with an existential crisis. How did we accumulate all this stuff? There are children worldwide without a single toy, and yet we have 19 different X-Wing fighters and a staggering number of Pokémon cards. Why can’t I part with the makeup I wore on my wedding day—13 years ago? When am I going to reread that hefty Cervantes novel? And those low-rise jeans? When did I even wear those? WHO AM I, AND WHY DO I STILL HAVE THESE THINGS?
Enough is enough! I decide to embrace the KonMari method and rid our lives of excess. We don’t need this clutter; it’s just “stuff,” after all. It doesn’t spark joy. I’ll adopt a philosophy of non-attachment, that’s the answer—right?
But wait! What if I need that turquoise eyeliner later? What if my son realizes I tossed out his rare Charizard card? And those X-Wing fighters? They could be worth something someday, or so my husband insists.
Perhaps it’s time to try a new approach. But I’ve already experimented with every organizational method out there. I’ve purchased storage bins, bookshelves, and even a fancy label maker to get everything in order.
Here’s the crux: good intentions don’t magically erase clutter, and frankly, I’m a bit lazy. I detest cleaning. Despite my aspirations for a perfectly organized home, I’m often buried beneath a mountain of broken toys, unwanted memorabilia, and action figures that have seen better days.
By the end of this saga, the only thing I’ve truly accomplished is a deep-seated disdain for my home. It will never resemble anything on those home improvement shows—unless chipped paint and crooked pictures count as “shabby chic.” The truth is, my family is downright messy. With every box of junk collected, it becomes harder to ignore the dirt and grime lurking underneath. Clean windows only highlight the chipped paint on the sills. Sweeping under the fridge reveals that my family is akin to a pack of wild animals, and peering into the light fixtures confirms that our house has become an insect burial ground. Some truths are better left undiscovered.
Forget moving; I’d rather burn this place down and start fresh.
However, that’s not feasible. So, I throw in the towel. I’ll just shove everything into a closet, pour myself a glass of wine, and take it outside to escape the clutter and chaos of these messy creatures I call family.
Mission accomplished. Task complete.
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In summary, spring cleaning often feels like an uphill battle filled with frustration, clutter, and the realization that sometimes, it’s easier to accept the chaos than to fight it.