Parents often face anxiety-inducing daily challenges—bedtime, mealtime, bath time. It seems our kids have an uncanny ability to sense when we need their cooperation and choose that moment to resist. One of the most notorious struggles is getting out the door in the morning. Thankfully, there’s a straightforward remedy.
Dr. Sarah Johnson, a licensed psychologist with a Ph.D. from Harvard University and a dedicated mom, offers practical advice for easing morning turmoil. Through her parenting site, Family Harmony, she frequently addresses common parenting dilemmas. When a concerned parent reached out about the morning madness, Dr. Johnson proposed a classic solution: snuggling.
While she provides a variety of strategies to streamline the morning routine, the emphasis on physical connection truly stands out.
“Taking time to bond with your child in the morning can completely transform your experience,” she explains. “By filling your child’s emotional ‘cup’ before the day begins, you re-establish your connection after the night’s separation, which motivates them to cooperate rather than resist. This is one of the most effective ways to prevent morning complaints and defiance.”
Dr. Johnson acknowledges that carving out even five minutes for a cuddle can be a challenge in the rush of morning preparations. That’s why she emphasizes the importance of evening prep—such as packing lunches and laying out clothes—to eliminate as many obstacles as possible.
Her approach focuses on nurturing strong relationships with children before stepping into a disciplinary role. Dr. Johnson believes that meaningful connections—both physical and emotional—can help children navigate their daily transitions more smoothly.
“If waking her up is a struggle, try concluding your morning cuddle by holding hands as you head downstairs together, making that a special moment where you both share something you appreciate or look forward to that day,” she suggests.
While some might find this touchy-feely method a bit excessive, there is undeniably valuable insight here. Yes, making lunch might not be the most exciting task, but it’s far more manageable when done the night before instead of scrambling for ingredients last minute. And even if it seems unrealistic to spend time snuggling when you’re already stressed about catching the bus, who wouldn’t cherish more cuddle time with their little ones?
If adjusting your routine can result in more affectionate moments and fewer last-minute crises—like when your child can’t find their shoes—it’s worth considering. I’m eager to try this approach and may even discuss with my partner the benefits of morning cuddles before heading off to work.
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In summary, incorporating morning snuggles into your routine could be the key to transforming chaotic mornings into more peaceful, connected experiences with your children.