To My Partner:
What a whirlwind of a year it has been! We began this journey filled with hope, dreams, and excitement, and now, as we close this chapter, we find ourselves wrapped in gratitude and appreciation. Our daughter is not merely an extension of us; she is a precious gift from you.
I remember when people told me I would discover true love once she arrived. I scoffed at the notion, thinking I already understood love. Yet, I learned they were right. Despite the disagreements, challenges, and heartaches we’ve faced this year, we’ve emerged stronger because what we have is genuine love—unconditional, forgiving, and nurturing. It envelops us, even on our toughest days.
I want to express how much I appreciate you as a father. Your unique qualities have shone brightly throughout this year—qualities I never knew existed. You’re tender, funny, charming, and so innovative with her. The love in your eyes for her is something I’ve never witnessed before. You truly adore her, and it’s evident.
I apologize for my constant interruptions and unsolicited advice. It’s not that I doubt your parenting skills; it’s just that a mother’s mind is often filled with concerns and worries.
This year has surprised me as well. I anticipated being a fantastic mom (perhaps a little too confident?), but I never envisioned the depth of my parenting instincts. From the moment she was growing inside me, something shifted. Her happiness, comfort, and safety have become my top priorities. The weight of responsibility is always present, and at times it can feel overwhelming. Parenthood takes over, even when I wish for a moment of respite.
There are countless moments when I look at her and think, “This is real. She is here. She’s ours.” It’s a surreal experience that still feels like a dream. From the two of us to the three of us—despite carrying her for nine months, I often find myself pinching my arm in disbelief.
Never did I think there would be nights we wouldn’t share a goodnight kiss, and while it shouldn’t feel right, it surprisingly does, and our world remains intact.
As this year comes to a close, I reflect on the nights we’ve spent apart. It echoes the two years we endured being separated, one of which was halfway across the globe. Yet, that period of discovery and adaptation has returned in a much richer form. We are together, happy, and now we have our little one—the beautiful result of our love.
The spark between us hasn’t faded; rather, it has transformed into a different expression of love. I appreciate it so much more now.
Looking back, I feel a deeper connection with you. We are a stronger team. While surface tensions may arise, the love and respect we share run deeper than ever. My appreciation for you and all you do for our family grows daily.
Every time I see you with our baby, I realize how fortunate she is to have you as her father—and how lucky I am to be part of this beautiful journey. These early years will fly by, and though it may seem that the couple who cherished their time together is lost, I know that’s not the case.
You and I will always be here for each other.
I love you, and I trust you know just how much.
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Summary:
The journey of parenthood is filled with unexpected challenges and profound joys. As we reflect on our first year as parents, we appreciate the unconditional love that binds us together. The weight of responsibility can feel overwhelming, but it also brings a deeper connection between partners. While the early years may pass quickly, the love we share for our child and each other remains steadfast.
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