As we step into a new year, I’ve decided to ditch the typical resolutions that I know I’ll abandon in just a couple of days—like cutting back on sweets or swearing less. This time, I’m focusing on commitments that I genuinely believe I can honor.
Lowering Expectations
First and foremost, I resolve to lower my expectations of myself. Last year was a whirlwind of excitement and challenges, yet instead of savoring my achievements, I found myself in a constant state of comparison with others who seemed to be reaching greater heights. The satisfaction of my accomplishments faded in the shadow of others’ successes.
So, this year, I’m aiming for a more realistic perspective. I don’t need to write a bestseller or embark on an extensive book tour. My priority is to relax, enjoy the process, and lighten up—not just regarding my writing but in every aspect of life.
Learning to Say “No”
Another resolution I’m committing to is learning the art of saying “no.” I often find myself rearranging my commitments to accommodate last-minute requests, whether it’s helping out at school or taking on responsibilities that, while meaningful, simply don’t fit into my schedule. This year, if something doesn’t align with my priorities, I’ll confidently say no without unnecessary apologies or second-guessing myself. Just a firm, clear no.
It’s about being kinder to myself and recognizing my limits. This really shouldn’t be too difficult. And yes, drinking more water is also on the list! I have to make space for imperfection and the occasional failures that come with trying to do it all.
Resources for Parents
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Conclusion
In summary, this year is about embracing realistic expectations, mastering the word “no,” and being gentler with ourselves. Here’s to a fulfilling year ahead!
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