Updated: Aug. 3, 2016
Originally Published: Dec. 28, 2012
If you’ve been following recent updates, you may have heard that Target has decided to eliminate gender labels in their toy aisles. Gone are the days of pink sections for “girls” and blue sections for “boys.” Instead, shoppers will now find a unified space with no signs dictating which toys belong to which gender.
In their official announcement, Target explained their intention:
“Our teams are currently collaborating to identify areas where we can remove gender-based signage, promoting a more inclusive shopping experience. In sections like kids’ bedding, signage will now simply read ‘kids.’ In the toy aisles, references to gender will also be eliminated, including the use of any distinct colors like pink or blue. Expect to see these changes unfolding over the next few months.”
While many are applauding this move towards inclusivity, a vocal minority has expressed their disdain, calling the new approach “confusing” and “against traditional values.” Some have even pledged to boycott Target due to what they perceive as an attack on gender norms.
I understand the concern. The idea of purchasing a toy without clear gender indications can be daunting. After all, what if you mistakenly buy a strong, independent toy for your little girl? Or, even worse, what if your son grows attached to a nurturing doll? The horror!
But, just in case you find yourself in Target’s newly reformed toy section, here are a few tips to help you navigate this confusing landscape:
- Determine the Toy’s Gender the Old-School Way
A common lament from those opposed to this change is, “How will we know what’s for girls and what’s for boys?” Well, you can always rely on good old-fashioned interrogation tactics. Set the toy down in a quiet spot (an empty room works wonders) and ask it questions that will reveal its true nature. Do you prefer action figures or glitter? Are you more interested in sports or dress-up? With persistence, you’ll soon uncover the toy’s identity. - Ask Your Child for Their Preference
Your child might be too young to spell their name, but they likely have a solid grasp of gender roles—thanks to their upbringing. Simply ask them which toys they find appealing. If raised with traditional values, they’ll likely gravitate towards toys that match their assigned gender. Just be cautious; this method may backfire if your child shows interest in something outside the norm. In that case, it’s up to you to gently guide them back to what’s “appropriate” since Target’s signage won’t do it for you anymore. - The “Life or Death” Test
A quick rule of thumb: toys that promote nurturing, such as baby dolls or soft animals, are typically deemed for girls. In contrast, toys associated with battle or destruction, like action figures and weaponry, tend to be for boys. Next time you’re perusing the shelves, just ask yourself, “Could this toy lead to a scene of chaos in a movie?” If so, it’s likely a fit for your little boy.
So, if you ever find yourself in Target’s gender-neutral toy aisle, refer back to these tips for clarity. And remember, a little humor never hurt anyone—maybe post a playful jab about the changes on social media afterwards!
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In summary, while Target’s gender-neutral toy section may seem daunting at first, with a little creativity and humor, you can navigate it like a pro. Embrace the chaos, and remember to keep an open mind!
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