As I lounge in bed, my partner, Mike, strolls in with a steaming mug of coffee. He catches sight of me and chuckles. “Your morning face is priceless,” he quips, planting a kiss on my forehead before handing me my latte.
Most of my mornings kick off with this angelic routine, courtesy of my wonderful husband. To brag a little, he also handles kitchen duties, whips up delicious meals, tackles grocery runs, and even mops the floors. I married a truly good man—kind, responsible, and a genuine partner. We’ve been together for 18 years, and this is the essence of who he is.
Many may say I’m fortunate, and in a way, they’re right. I don’t take what I have for granted. But let’s be clear: my husband isn’t a mythical creature. He’s not the only decent man I’ve encountered. Far from it.
Unfortunately, society often highlights the negative—those misogynistic characters who mistreat women, boast about assault, and engage in despicable acts. While such individuals are undeniably present, they’re not the majority in my reality. I would wager they aren’t the majority in society at large, either.
Countless remarkable men exist, often overlooked. The fathers I babysat for as a teen who drove me home late at night without making me uncomfortable. The guys I dated who respected my limits and always stopped when I said “no.” My male friends and family members who proudly identify as feminists because they believe in equality.
To honor these men and the multitude of good men out there, let’s raise a glass:
- Here’s to the compassionate, hardworking men we can rely on.
- Here’s to those unafraid to express their feelings and show vulnerability.
- Here’s to the men who reject the notion that testosterone justifies poor behavior and who understand that crude locker room banter should never demean women.
- Here’s to the men who, though they may not fully grasp the challenges of motherhood, strive to support the mothers of their children.
- Here’s to those who view fatherhood as an active role and don’t consider caring for their kids as “babysitting.”
- Here’s to the champions of the women in their lives, encouraging their ambitions and feeling no threat from women in leadership.
- Here’s to the men who appreciate the unique contributions women bring, advocate for female representation across all sectors, and recognize that fighting for equality benefits everyone.
- Here’s to those who see men and women as two wings of the same bird, understanding that without both wings being strong, humanity can’t soar.
- Here’s to the men disgusted by the likes of Brock Turner, who can’t comprehend using brute strength to control or harm women.
- Here’s to those who reject the “boys will be boys” excuse, knowing that such low standards insult all men.
- Here’s to the men who get it—and who work to help other men understand too.
I know many of these amazing men, and I’m sure you do too. If you don’t, it might be time to seek out some new company. Good, kind, decent men are all around if you look closely.
So here’s to them, the incredible men of the world. May we find them, cherish them, and raise our sons to embody these values. Cheers!
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In summary, let’s celebrate the good men in our lives who uplift and support us, while also recognizing the need for more positive role models in society.