I tried to resist it. I attempted to dodge it. I battled fiercely with every ounce of my being to keep it at bay, but it kept pursuing me relentlessly. Eventually, I had to surrender. I accepted my fate: I am the quintessential mom.
Sure, occasionally I’ll splurge on some trendy jeans that are all the rage this season. Or perhaps I’ll pick up a stylish blouse that everyone is raving about on social media. I might wear them for a week or two, but before long, they’ll be buried at the back of my closet while my comfy tunics and leggings come back to the forefront. I strive to be unique, to stay relevant, but at the end of the day, I’m just a worn-out mom who prioritizes comfort over looking chic.
I make an effort to check out new and exciting coffee shops in my area — those places with quirky decor and imaginative drinks, where the menu claims the ingredients come from fields tilled by unicorns and watered by the dreams of children. I want to appreciate their creativity and ambiance. But honestly? I’d rather join the line of other tired moms with toddlers in tow and order my trusty grande vanilla latte from a well-known chain. It’s delicious, predictable, and there’s no judgment — just a warm cup of coffee to brighten a chilly day.
Standing out and defying the conventional mom mold takes time and effort, and frankly, I’m too exhausted to go against the grain. We zip around in a minivan, I wear UGG boots without irony, and yes, I will defend autumn as the best season ever with all my might. And as that viral meme says, I’ll win because I have full range of motion in these fabulous leggings.
At 33, I’m done trying to be different. Honestly, I’m not even sure I’d want to be different. Mom stereotypes exist because they resonate with so many of us. Do we sometimes go days without showering because we’re too tired to lift our arms? Absolutely. Are those Lularoe leggings popular because moms prioritize comfort over style, especially when our wardrobes are often smeared with some sort of kid-related goo? You bet. Do we rely on a nightly glass of wine to decompress after yet another evening of homework battles? You know it.
I’ve come to realize that it’s perfectly fine to embody a stereotype. It’s okay to be a caricature of what society thinks moms are. It’s alright to pull up to the school pickup line with a messy bun, yoga pants, and a few French fries tumbling from the back seat when your child hops in. It’s just fine if dry shampoo is your go-to beauty product. It’s perfectly acceptable if your kids have had mac and cheese for dinner for the third time this week or if you hit the gym solely for the free childcare. And it’s definitely okay if your purse has more fruit snack wrappers than dollar bills.
Even if you don’t stand out, you’re still a strong, intelligent, beautiful woman raising capable and kind children. That’s a mom stereotype worth celebrating.
Carry on, Mama!
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Summary: Embracing the mom stereotype can be liberating. It’s okay to prioritize comfort over style, indulge in predictability, and accept the chaos of motherhood. Strong, loving moms come in all forms, and it’s perfectly fine to fit into the stereotype.