As friends embark on their journey into parenthood, I find myself reflecting on the things I wish I could have known during my own experience. Instead of sharing my past with them, here are my heartfelt hopes for their new adventure:
- I genuinely hope your little one has a strong aversion to Caillou. If they could also steer clear of Max and Ruby, that would be fantastic—though I know that’s a tall order.
- I wish for your baby to discover a comforting item that soothes them—a sort of ‘baby mute button’—like a pacifier or even a beloved toy (not the expensive ones, please!). Ideally, I hope it’s not your breast, as it was for me with my older son and his attachment to Chachi, a blanket he adored.
- I hope that among sleepless nights, car rides that feel like marathons, potty training battles, and diaper change tantrums, you only face one major challenge. Every baby has their pet peeve, and most parents don’t escape unscathed.
- I wish your baby has a preference for how you carry them—whether it’s in a bucket, sling, or Ergo baby carrier. Still, I hope they don’t insist on sleeping in the same position!
- I sincerely hope you steer clear of Pinterest for a while. Trust me, there’s a right time for that, and it’s definitely not now.
- I hope you manage to jot down a list without repeating items, only to convince your partner later that you didn’t.
- Remember, television didn’t ruin you, and it certainly won’t ruin your child. If you feel differently, I hope your friends don’t give you judgmental looks.
- I hope you don’t encounter a seemingly wise stranger in the women’s lounge at a department store who insists their parenting methods are the only way. Their success may not translate to your experience, and that’s perfectly okay.
- I wish for you to find a reliable friend to confide in, whether it’s someone from your past or a fellow new mom. I didn’t have the ideal support network I envisioned; instead, I relied on my best friend and a lactation consultant named Sarah. They were invaluable during my journey.
- I hope someone gives you a heads-up about the reality of postpartum recovery, including the delightful surprises of “mesh underwear” and the absurdity of “surfboards” to describe those oversized pads.
- I sincerely wish you have a partner who supports you, whether that means stepping in to help or understanding when to let you have some space.
- I hope you receive the understanding and flexibility you need from your loved ones without having to resort to an exaggerated plea for slack.
- It’s crucial to remember that parenting isn’t a competition, even if some moms try to make it one. Cut them some slack; they’re likely just as anxious as you are.
- I truly wish you get a realistic understanding of what a “post-baby body” looks like. Avoid any articles with that title; it’s going to take time. Remember, modeling for Victoria’s Secret is likely rooted in genetics and some mythical deal.
- Above all, I hope you come to realize, as I did after far too long, that you are inherently meant to be your baby’s parent. Trust your instincts; you can do this. Your baby simply wants you—dark circles under your eyes, doubts, and all.
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In summary, embracing parenthood is a unique journey filled with challenges and joys. Keeping an open mind and heart will help navigate the exhilarating, albeit daunting, adventure ahead.
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