I wouldn’t classify myself as a total girly girl before becoming a mom, but I did enjoy dressing up, wearing makeup, and accessorizing. Now, I feel like I might need to enroll in a makeup course once my kids are grown because I hardly remember the last time I applied any. After putting my kids to bed tonight, cracking open a cold drink, and binge-watching my favorite series, I can’t help but wonder: when did I start resembling my husband?
While I may be generalizing, I can’t help but notice the similarities between my actions and those of my husband. Here are seven ways that motherhood has shaped me to be more like him:
1. I Can Get Ready in a Flash.
I used to envy how quickly my husband got ready in the morning. A quick shower, a couple of minutes to brush his teeth, and he was dressed in just a few minutes. For me, it used to take over an hour of showering, hairstyling, and outfit changes. Now, I’ve mastered the art of getting ready in under ten minutes. A quick shower, a dusting of powder, and some mascara later, I’m good to go—though my hairstyle often ends up in a messy bun.
2. Public Shirt Removal Is No Big Deal.
I struggled with breastfeeding my first child, but after a lot of effort, I was successful with my second. The first time I nursed publicly, I felt awkward. However, when my baby is crying for food, the discomfort disappears. I often wear the least convenient shirts for nursing, yet I look around at other parents and realize it’s all part of the experience.
3. I’ve Got a ‘Wife’ in the Kitchen.
When I say ‘wife,’ I mean my trusty crockpot. Cooking has become less about culinary skills and more about tossing ingredients together. If I whip up something edible, I celebrate it like I’ve just hosted a five-course dinner party, while secretly hoping my husband doesn’t expect these meals too often!
4. Foreplay Has Been Replaced by ‘After Sleep.’
Our kids have a knack for interrupting our nighttime routine, often sneaking into our bed at odd hours. With the unpredictability of little ones waking up, I find myself looking forward to the moments of peace after they’ve settled down, rather than the romantic gestures we once enjoyed.
5. I’ve Embraced the Gross Side of Parenting.
The first time I had to catch a poop with my bare hands to save a carpet, I was shocked at my own bravery. Now, I find myself tackling all sorts of messy situations—from wiping noses to dealing with unexpected spills—without batting an eye. My husband might be grossed out, but hey, it’s all part of the job.
6. The Smell Test is My New Laundry Strategy.
I used to obsess over doing laundry the right way, but with kids, that’s all gone out the window. Now, I’m rummaging through the dirty clothes basket thinking, “This shirt could probably be worn again.” When you’re up to your neck in laundry, sometimes you have to get creative.
7. My Listening Skills Have Diminished.
I was once proud of being a good listener, but now my attention is constantly divided. With a toddler asking the same question repeatedly and a baby crying for attention, my ability to engage has shifted. I’ve noticed myself using my husband’s conversational techniques with the kids, just to keep up!
Am I stereotyping? Maybe a little. Yet, it’s fascinating how parenthood can bring couples closer together in unexpected ways. My husband has become a nurturing partner, and I’ve grown to embrace a whole new side of life.
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In summary, while I may have adopted some of my husband’s traits, it’s all part of the journey of parenthood. Embracing these changes has helped me grow in ways I never anticipated.
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