We really tried to find a reason to dislike Jillian Roberts. I mean, she’s got that flawless physique, she’s always preaching about fitness, and let’s be honest—look at her! But the truth is, we just can’t muster any resentment because deep down, we wish she was our best friend. She’s the ultimate mom friend—down-to-earth, outspoken, and definitely not one to let you off the hook. Jillian, we didn’t want to adore you, but you somehow managed to fill that void in our lives.
From shutting down online critics to promoting the idea that love and acceptance are what our kids truly need, we’re all in on Jillian’s honest approach to parenting. So, we decided to hit her with a little mom quiz and see where she stands on some pressing topics—like using your kid as a convenient excuse to dodge responsibilities.
Complete this thought: Motherhood is…
A wild, thrilling, exhausting, amazing, and sometimes insane journey.
What’s the grossest part of motherhood for you?
Dealing with a “creamy” poop explosion when they describe it that way. I mean, that’s just the nature of the beast, right?
What’s the best parenting advice you’ve ever received or given?
“Don’t sweat it. Everyone eventually learns to talk, walk, and use the toilet. They’ll be just fine.”
How have your thoughts on baby weight changed since becoming a mom?
Not at all. Weight management is a straightforward process. While it’s not a walk in the park, maintaining a healthy lifestyle is crucial for both you and your child. Everyone is capable of it.
What’s your top tip for fostering a healthy body image in kids?
Avoid self-deprecating talk, and never criticize or judge others based on appearance.
Work-life balance can be a myth. Any hacks for managing both?
You’ve got to ditch the all-or-nothing mindset. Of course, we prioritize our kids because they can’t fend for themselves, but we also need to prioritize our own happiness and health. It sets a precedent for them! If we act like martyrs and neglect our wellbeing, they’ll learn to do the same. I advocate for carving out at least 12 hours a week just for yourself. That’s enough time for workouts, date nights, a manicure, or even a doctor’s appointment. Many women scoff at this as impossible, but with roughly 112 waking hours in a week, surely you can find 12 for yourself. If I can do it, trust me, anyone can.
Motherhood brings a ton of worries. What’s one thing you’ve learned isn’t worth the stress?
I see so many parents boasting about their kids’ accomplishments—first words at seven months, walking by nine months, etc. But let’s be real; my kids are just typical kids. They hit those milestones at a normal pace, and that’s perfectly fine! I wasn’t some child prodigy, and I turned out okay. My children will tackle life’s challenges at their own speed, and that’s all that matters.
When was the last time you used your kids as an excuse to get out of something?
Oh, just five minutes ago!
What’s the least amount of sleep you can function on?
Six hours. Honestly, I really need my sleep! I can’t function without it. But now that my kids are older, I’m finally getting a decent amount—though not as much as I’d like, of course.
If you’re interested in more of Jillian’s insights, check out her new pregnancy book “Yeah! Baby” and her latest DVD “10 Minute Body Transformation.”
Summary:
Jillian Roberts shares her candid thoughts on motherhood, baby weight, and the challenges of parenting in a humorous yet insightful manner. From navigating the messy realities of child-rearing to emphasizing self-care, she encourages balance and acceptance in parenting. Her advice resonates with many parents who often feel overwhelmed and unsure.