I know you go all out for your kids’ birthdays, don’t you? You’ve probably spent countless late nights whipping up cupcakes after juggling dinner, bath time, and that chaotic bedtime routine. And of course, you added in a healthy snack for school because, well, that’s just how we roll now. Exhaustion? Sure, but in your mind, you’re thinking, “This will be a day they remember forever!”
I can only imagine the hours and dollars you poured into planning that epic party with grab bags, balloons, a piñata, and maybe even a little something for the parents. You meticulously figured out how much food to prepare so no one leaves hungry, kept track of allergies, and hoped everyone could make it to ensure your child had the best day imaginable.
After it was all said and done, your house was a war zone—the one you just cleaned and now looks like a tornado hit it. But did you care? Nope! The joy on your child’s face as friends and family flooded in was worth it.
And when it comes to celebrating your partner’s, sister’s, mother’s, or friends’ birthdays, you’re right there making it special for them too. You remember every niece and nephew, making sure they feel cherished and loved.
So why is it that when your own birthday rolls around, you brush it off like it’s no big deal?
I call nonsense on that! You absolutely deserve to be celebrated. You’re the one who keeps everything running smoothly, the glue holding it all together, and that deserves recognition. Speak up, Mama!
Treat yourself this year. Go get that manicure and pedicure, or indulge in fries—because why not? If you feel like hitting the beach alone, do it! Or if a family dinner is all you need for a break from cooking, ask for it. Take that spontaneous trip to Vegas, buy that fun gadget you’ve had your eye on, savor that wine, and yes—enjoy two pieces of cake! You are worthy of every bit of it, and you have the magical ability to heal wounds with just a kiss.
This is your special day, and it should be nothing short of fabulous!
Just because you make everything wonderful for others doesn’t mean you should settle for less on your birthday. You do so much—planning, creating, worrying, and showing up every single day—so it’s time to do something for yourself too.
Don’t pull the busy card or downplay your feelings. You matter to so many, and you deserve to celebrate. You’re another year older and even better, and that’s something to honor.
So, this birthday, slip into your party dress and ask for what you truly want.
Create your ideal day! If no one else steps up, take charge and enjoy it. And promise yourself to celebrate every year moving forward. You deserve at least one day to recognize your incredible place in this world—because you absolutely do!
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In summary
Moms, take a moment to celebrate yourselves on your birthdays. You pour so much into others, and it’s time to reflect that love back to you. Make your day special, ask for what you want, and never let another year go by without honoring your incredible role in this world.