Everyone was a bit taken aback (okay, maybe not really) when the Washington Post dropped a bombshell video of Donald Trump caught on a hot mic, revealing his oh-so-charming approach to women. This gem, recorded in 2005 while Trump was arriving for a cameo on Days of Our Lives, features a delightful banter with none other than Billy Brooks from Access Hollywood.
And by “delightful,” I mean a cringe-worthy locker room exchange that makes you want to gag a little. Trump openly discusses his unsuccessful attempts to seduce a married woman, stating, “I moved on her, and I failed. I’ll admit it. I did try and get with her.” He goes on to describe her physical transformation, complete with “big phony tits,” as if that somehow justifies his failure.
It’s hardly surprising for someone of his wealth and status to boast about his conquests, but it’s rather shocking to hear him recount a story where he didn’t get what he wanted. Isn’t this the same guy who has a disdain for “losers”? At the time of this conversation, he had only been married to Melania for a few months. Draw your own conclusions.
The conversation quickly takes a bizarre turn as he laments the woman’s breast augmentation, potentially using it as a flimsy excuse for his lack of success. “She was hot then, but now she’s all phony looking, so I guess I dodged a bullet, right?”
Trump’s comments escalate as he says, “I’ve got to use some Tic Tacs, just in case I start kissing her.” He continues, “You know I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait … And when you’re a star, they let you do it.”
Then comes the infamous line: “Grab them by the pussy … You can do anything.” Excuse me while I take a moment to breathe through the rising nausea.
This is the individual the GOP chose to represent them? A narcissistic figure who brags about leveraging his power to coerce women into unwanted advances? “Grab them by the pussy”? I genuinely wonder how many times he’s faced real consequences for this behavior.
Let’s be clear: you cannot just “do anything.” It’s concerning that in a time when we’re striving to teach our kids about consent and body autonomy, someone seeking the highest office in the land thinks it’s acceptable to approach women with such disrespect. We are not objects to be claimed, and it’s crucial that our boundaries are respected.
Trump promptly issued a statement downplaying the situation: “This was locker-room banter, a private conversation that took place many years ago. Bill Clinton has said far worse to me on the golf course — not even close. I apologize if anyone was offended.” It’s telling that he thinks comparing his behavior to Clinton’s somehow absolves him. Sorry, Donald, that’s not how accountability works.
This pattern of objectifying women is nothing new for Trump, and it’s infuriating that he seems oblivious to the wrongness of his actions. If he’s unwilling to change his behavior, it’s hard to imagine he’d support any policies that genuinely benefit women. To him, we are merely distractions, not equals.
In the grand scheme, did this video alter anything? Not really. Those who were appalled by it weren’t voting for him anyway, and his supporters seem to shrug it off as unimportant. However, we must have serious discussions about troubling allegations he faces, including a child rape case involving a thirteen-year-old girl.
Right now, I’m torn between feeling nauseated by Trump’s conduct and the legions of people who support him. Ignoring this reality is not an option. We must wake up and recognize what’s happening around us.
I couldn’t care less about who is sleeping with whom in entertainment or politics, unless it directly impacts my life. But when it comes to those in power, it’s imperative we scrutinize their behavior. When someone continuously shows you who they are, believe them. Trump has repeatedly revealed the depths of his character. He won’t change because he has no reason to, and without consequences, he’ll persist in his harmful behavior.
He has made a career out of being a disrespectful jerk, and when confronted, he dismisses it like it’s no big deal. Frankly, he has little to offer this country in terms of improvement; he can only drag us down to his level — and no thank you to that.
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Summary:
Donald Trump’s troubling comments in a leaked video reveal a pattern of toxic masculinity and objectification of women. His dismissive attitude and attempts to excuse his behavior through comparisons to others only further highlight the need for accountability. As we continue to advocate for consent and respect, it’s crucial to recognize and challenge such attitudes, especially from those in positions of power.