In June 2015, Lisa and her partner took their vibrant 2-year-old son, Sam, to the pediatrician after a minor tumble. Sam wasn’t eating or drinking as he usually did, but the pediatrician brushed it off as a phase. Little did they know, their world was about to flip upside down within 24 hours.
Noticing some unusual bruising on Sam’s ear, the pediatrician ordered blood tests for anemia. The results showed dangerously low platelet levels, prompting an urgent trip to the emergency room. After a whirlwind of tests, the family received the earth-shattering news: their lively toddler, who adored chasing butterflies and exploring the backyard, had acute lymphoblastic leukemia.
The shock hit hard, but there was no time to process it. They were immediately introduced to a compassionate oncology team, who understood the emotional rollercoaster the family was on. Within a week, Sam underwent surgery for a port to start chemotherapy, and the next nine days were a blur of hospital walks and restless hours. “I often found myself sneaking back to his room just to let the tears flow,” Lisa recalled, “My sweet boy—how could this happen?”
Leaving the hospital, they received a treatment schedule, but soon Sam was sleeping more and losing his sandy blonde hair, revealing a round head that only highlighted his cherubic smile. By day 29 of his treatment, Sam’s cancer went into remission. Now, over a year later, he’s a spirited little guy with a dazzling smile, yet the journey is far from over. He faces two more years of chemotherapy, and his parents are acutely aware of the risks of relapse and potential long-term effects of treatment.
“My son, my little warrior, will be a cancer survivor before he even starts school,” Lisa said, reflecting on their journey. “I used to listen to families share their stories during local cancer fundraisers and wondered how they coped. Now, we are that family. Our lives changed in an instant.”
Lisa found strength in a group called Momcology, where fellow mothers who’ve faced similar challenges offered support and understanding. Here are ten important things they wish everyone knew about childhood cancer:
- Stay Positive. Avoid sharing stories of those who didn’t make it. Instead, offer a smile. Everyone dealing with cancer can use a little kindness.
- The Battle Continues Post-Chemo. Families live in fear of relapse and long-term effects long after treatment wraps up.
- Childhood Cancer Research is Underfunded. The National Cancer Institute allocates only about 4% of its budget to childhood cancer. Children are waiting for advancements that are starved for funding.
- There’s No Special Treatment for Kids. Children undergoing chemotherapy receive the same harsh treatments as adults. It’s a heart-wrenching process for both them and their families.
- They Need Your Support. Families want you to stick by their side, even when it gets uncomfortable. Your presence means the world.
- Don’t Just Ask if They Need Help—Offer It! Start a meal train, help with bills, or simply offer to mow the lawn. And don’t forget the siblings; they need extra love too!
- Mental Health Days are Crucial. Families are often overwhelmed. They may not be ready to discuss updates; respect their space.
- Skip the “Miracle Cure” Suggestions. If there were simple solutions like coconut oil, they would be in every treatment plan. Trust the medical professionals.
- A Child with Cancer Can Still Smile. Just because they look happy or have hair doesn’t mean they aren’t suffering. Their families see the tough days.
- You Can Make a Difference! Every small contribution counts. Whether it’s donating to Momcology, Alex’s Lemonade Stand, or joining the bone marrow registry, every effort helps.
I challenge you to take action against childhood cancer. Do it for Sam, for all the kids enduring treatment, and for families like Lisa’s who need support. If you’ve ever thought about lending a hand, now’s the time.
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Summary: Childhood cancer affects families profoundly, and awareness is crucial. From understanding the need for support to recognizing the ongoing challenges even after treatment ends, we can all help make a difference for these brave little warriors and their families.