I was at the grocery store with Lily and Jake, my two oldest kids, when we strolled past the flower stand. Jake looked up at me with a big grin and asked, “Are you going to get Mom some flowers?” From the cart, Lily chimed in, “Yeah, let’s surprise her with flowers!” They might not fully grasp the significance behind gifting flowers, but they certainly recognize how it lights up their mom’s face. It’s become a family tradition, and they were eager to take part in expressing their love for her, just like I do.
When my partner Rachel and I tied the knot over a decade ago, I promised myself to treat her to flowers each month. Sure, I kept that up for a year or two, but life got busy with college, the kids, and work, so my consistency dwindled. I still bought her flowers now and then—sometimes after a disagreement, sometimes to lift her spirits, and often just because. But if I had to estimate, I’d say I managed to surprise her with flowers only two or three times a year. In the grand scheme of things, that might be decent for some couples but far from enough.
I always had my reasons: I didn’t think I had the time, or maybe we were short on cash. But recently, I’ve rekindled that monthly tradition and have realized a few things.
Firstly, buying Rachel flowers is incredibly simple. It’s not the ordeal it once was when I had to brave the florist’s shop. Now, I can order flowers online with just a few clicks. There are plenty of budget-friendly services that deliver flowers right to our door. In fact, I discovered a promotion that sent Rachel flowers and chocolates for three consecutive days. The excitement in her messages—along with the photos she shared on social media—showed me how much these little surprises meant to her. Each delivery turned her into a princess, and my kids helped arrange the blooms in water, which made it even more special.
This practice of buying flowers isn’t just about Rachel; it’s also teaching my children something important. My son, Jake, is nine, and I want him to understand how to treat a partner with love and affection. It’s crucial he sees that romance doesn’t fade after years of marriage. As for my daughters, I want them to grow up expecting gestures of love. They deserve partners who put in that effort, just as I do for their mother.
As Jake and Lily helped me choose flowers at the store, I turned to my son and said, “When you get married, I expect you to buy your wife flowers.” He nodded seriously, taking it all in. Then I looked at my daughter and added, “Whoever you marry better bring you flowers too. You should expect that!” She beamed and gave me a big hug.
When we got home, there was a playful tussle over who would present the flowers to Rachel. Ultimately, Lily won, promising Jake he could give her flowers next time. Bursting through the door, she handed Rachel a lovely bouquet of tulips with a huge smile and said, “Love you, Mommy!” Jake stood behind her, grinning from ear to ear. Rachel hugged them both and then turned to give me a kiss.
It doesn’t have to be flowers, of course. It could be chocolates, coffee, or any small, thoughtful gift that shows appreciation. For us, flowers symbolize that I’m thinking of Rachel. It’s a simple yet meaningful gesture. I want my kids to understand the beauty of romance, and honestly, every mom deserves that acknowledgment.
Rachel is an incredible force in our family, often working tirelessly behind the scenes. She navigates a chaotic day-to-day life filled with challenges and worries. The effort she puts into our family deserves recognition. Buying her flowers is my way of saying, “Thank you for everything. We appreciate you.” She is still beautiful and worthy of romance. Investing in these small gestures strengthens our marriage and enriches our family life.
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In short, never underestimate the power of small gestures of appreciation for moms. They are the backbone of our families and truly deserve all the love and recognition we can give them.