HUSBAND SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT
When your partner asks how they look, follow these steps:
- Give them a good look over.
- Take a moment so your answer seems genuine.
- Avoid staring too long, which could suggest you’ve spotted flaws that don’t exist.
- Be honest—stick to the truth without embellishment.
- Say nothing except, “You look amazing!”
Failing to stick to these guidelines could lead to a dramatic wardrobe change, a grumpy mood, or even an embarrassing delay for your plans. Worst case scenario? You might find yourself needing a divorce lawyer.
Just kidding! But honestly, anyone in a serious relationship knows that navigating questions like “Does this outfit work for me?” or “Am I putting on weight?” can spark a full-blown argument. It’s a delicate balance between being truthful and avoiding hurt feelings.
At least that’s the case for guys. Women, on the other hand, seem to have a free pass to share their opinions about their partners’ appearance without a second thought. It’s like there’s an unwritten rule that men should sugarcoat everything, while women can be as straightforward as they like.
Every so often, my partner will don a new outfit and ask for my thoughts. When I respond with “Looks good!” or “No, you don’t look heavy,” she often replies with a skeptical, “Really?” It’s not that I’m lying—nope, never! But I get why she might think I am; if I happen to say something isn’t flattering, the fallout could be catastrophic.
Meanwhile, if she comments on my appearance—a nudge to hit the gym or a suggestion that my shirt’s a bit snug—I know I have to take it with a smile. If I were to reciprocate, I’d be in for a fight I can’t win.
It’s not that she means to hurt my feelings. In fact, she has an incredible fashion sense that often keeps me on track. I appreciate her constructive feedback, and honestly, I couldn’t care less about her gym visits or clothing choices. She’s still the woman I fell in love with, and that’s what truly matters. Sure, I may not be a fan of those rompers she wears, but hey, they suit her! You look great, love!
So why is there this double standard? I’m not sure. Is it because women are more sensitive? Not a chance! The women I know, including my partner, are some of the most resilient people out there. They’ve had to be tough to deal with the nonsense thrown their way.
Maybe it’s rooted in the outdated beauty standards that society imposes, which often burden women more than men. But when you’re in a committed relationship, shouldn’t it be more about your partner’s feelings than societal pressures? (Yes, men have feelings too!).
I could ask my partner for her take, but I’d probably get teased.
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In summary, navigating the tricky waters of honesty in a relationship—especially when it comes to appearance—can be a challenge. It’s important to communicate with care, as honesty is often the best policy, but a little flattery can go a long way!