A while back, I found myself in quite a state—messy hair, yoga pants that should’ve been retired a year ago, and a T-shirt that could probably tell some wild stories. When my partner walked through the door, I typically would’ve mumbled an apology over my appearance or the chaos in our home. But this time, I was done with that. I had reached my breaking point with toddler meltdowns and sleepless nights, and for once, I embraced it all. I launched into a passionate tirade about how women shouldn’t apologize for things that don’t deserve it. I wrote it down, sent it off to a parenting site, and before I knew it, I was being celebrated, criticized, and everything in between. But guess what? I stood my ground.
Life has been brighter ever since. Letting it all out was liberating, and now I’m back to share 10 more things moms should stop feeling sorry for. Here we go!
1. Resting Mom Face
You’ve heard of “resting bitch face,” but have you met “resting mom face”? It’s that expression that says, “Count to three if you dare!” I rock this face so often that it might as well be my default. And I’m not sorry! It’s a necessary armor against my two little tornadoes.
2. Chicken Nuggets and Mac and Cheese
Like many parents, I started with high hopes for my kids’ diet, but let’s be real. Chicken nuggets and mac and cheese make regular appearances on our dinner table, and you know what? I buy the organic stuff, so I’m practically a health guru! If you’re clutching your pearls over this, maybe grab a tofu burger and relax. They’re not sprouting extra limbs yet.
3. Bathroom Hideouts
When the kiddos are in full meltdown mode, sometimes a mom needs to retreat. I’ll take my solace in the bathroom, flipping through magazines and pretending I’m at a spa while chaos reigns outside. Hey, it’s better than losing my cool!
4. Mental Health Meds
If I had another kid, I’d probably name them after my anxiety meds. Growing up, mental health was swept under the rug, but postpartum depression had me seeking help. Now I’m on medication, and it’s been a game-changer. So if you’ve got an issue with that, kindly take it elsewhere.
5. Screen Time
Yes, I’ve heard the warnings about excessive screen time turning kids into zombies. But when my toddler identified a hexagon after watching hours of cartoons, I realized that screen time has its perks. Thanks, Disney Channel, for enriching my child’s vocabulary!
6. Working Moms
I work because I want to and because I need to. If you think I’m abandoning my children, maybe you need to rethink your perspective. Whether I’m clocking in at an office or working from home, trust me, I’m busy.
7. Yelling
I don’t like raising my voice, but when my child decides to strip down in public and go for it, sometimes urgency calls for a bit of volume. It’s not about being a dictator; it’s about keeping the environment, and your decor, safe!
8. Having Opinions
Just because I don’t flex my muscles like some men doesn’t mean my opinions aren’t valid. I’ve got thoughts, and I’m not afraid to share them! I might love the NFL but that doesn’t mean I’m blind to the flaws of its leadership.
9. Being Assertive
Why is it that when a woman speaks her mind, she’s often labeled aggressive? Let’s flip the script—assertive women should be recognized as leaders, not ridiculed. If you can’t handle that, maybe it’s time to reevaluate your priorities.
10. Living Authentically
In this day and age, we’re beyond just being homemakers. Women are allowed to be who they want, unapologetically! If my choices—whether it’s tattoos, cursing, or having strong opinions—bother you, that’s your issue, not mine. I’m here to take up space and live my life without excuses.
So, ladies, let’s stop tiptoeing around societal expectations. We belong here, and we don’t need to apologize for it!
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Summary: Moms, it’s time to stop apologizing for things that don’t deserve an apology. From your resting mom face to your choices in parenting, you have every right to embrace who you are without feeling the need to justify yourself. Own your space, your opinions, and your lifestyle because you deserve it!