Disciplining your kids can feel like one of the least enjoyable aspects of parenting. Everyone gets upset, and before you know it, you’ve threatened to ban screen time forever—definitely not the outcome you want! Watching them feel down isn’t fun, but missteps are a part of growing up. I’d much rather they experience little failures now than face bigger ones later in life.
Since no one enjoys discipline, yet we certainly don’t want our kids growing up to be rude or uncaring, my partner Alex and I decided to spice things up a bit. Here are some of the creative discipline strategies we’ve employed over the years:
1. The Calm Approach
I’ve perfected this technique. Nothing sends shivers down the spine of a child like a calm mom speaking softly after they just drenched their sibling with a garden hose. Lowering myself to their level and whispering, “You’re going to apologize now, or we’ll have to have a longer chat later,” usually does the trick. The mystery of the “chat” is enough to make them comply.
2. Fair Play
Letting the offended sibling retaliate can be surprisingly effective. A little hose action in return? It’s all about balance!
3. Trash Bags to the Rescue
This is my go-to for toy clean-up. After a few ignored requests, I casually grab a trash bag and start collecting toys. Just saying, “Oh, I’ll take care of this,” gets them moving fast!
4. Manual Labor Magic
Sometimes, a little hard work is just what they need. After a particularly whiny day, we had our kids don long pants and gloves to tackle the thistles in the garden. They went from grumpy to polite children for a solid 24 hours after a little sweat!
5. Empower the Wronged Child
Allowing the hurt sibling to suggest a consequence can teach accountability. They need to be mature enough to understand the concept of karma, of course!
6. Self-Imposed Consequences
Letting kids choose their own consequences often results in them being tougher on themselves than you would be. Trust me, don’t let them in on that little secret.
7. Duct Tape Fun
At one point, we’d duct tape our son’s favorite toys to the wall when his behavior was less than stellar. It felt oddly satisfying; perhaps that was genius or maybe just a little misguided—who knows?
8. Preemptive Warnings
If the chaos continues, remind them, “If I have to deal with this any longer, I won’t have energy for the pool.” And if they keep it up, follow through. No guilt! Sticking to your guns is crucial; kids are skilled at spotting a parent who won’t.
9. Running it Off
A technique passed down from my own parents: when the kids get rowdy, they have to run around the house. Rain or shine, we count laps, and it’s over before you know it!
10. Separation Anxiety
Nothing makes kids want to be around each other more than being told they can’t play together. Separate rooms create a longing that can lead to some nice sibling moments once the ban is lifted.
11. A Little Scare Factor
Every once in a while, let them see the wild-eyed version of you that’s been holding back. This isn’t about physical punishment, just a glimpse of the seriousness that comes from being fed up with their antics.
Discipline looks different for everyone, and I’m sure some might raise eyebrows at our methods. But kids are resilient, and I trust that our approach to discipline will help them navigate the world better. Just remember, whatever you choose to do, make sure it’s for their benefit, yours, and the greater good.
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In summary, parenting is a wild ride filled with challenges, and discipline doesn’t have to be dull. With a bit of creativity and humor, you can teach valuable lessons while still keeping the atmosphere light and fun.