Ah, the joys of high school: sex, drugs, rock ’n’ roll, cyberbullying, Snapchat, sexting, Instagram selfies, and mean girls—just a typical Tuesday, right? This isn’t your mother’s high school; no way! But here’s the silver lining: today’s high school experience is dynamic, diverse, and surprisingly exciting.
Sure, there will still be monotonous lectures, 16-year-olds daydreaming of anything except iambic pentameter, AP classes that feel like a marathon, and an overwhelming pressure to prepare for college. But if you’re just sending your teen off to high school, don’t stress. With a good dose of patience and a sense of humor, you both will navigate these four years just fine. (Well, your kid might thrive, but you may feel like you’ve aged a decade!)
Here are a few important things to remember over the next four years:
- Your Freshman Will Transform.
Your teen on the first day of high school will be a vastly different person by senior year. The leap from freshman to senior is akin to the difference between a toddler and a preschooler. Don’t fret over the cluelessness of your freshman; in just four years, that awkward kid will emerge as a (mostly) self-sufficient young adult. - The Days Are Long—But In a Good Way.
High school starts at the crack of dawn and wraps up well after bedtime for elementary kids, thanks to after-school sports and activities. Adjusting to not seeing your kid for 12 hours might be tough, but it’s an essential step toward their independence. - There Are Amazing Kids There.
Teens often get a bad rap for being lazy and entitled. However, if you ever volunteer at your child’s high school, you’ll be pleasantly surprised. These kids are full of energy, empathy, and social awareness like never before. Watching them juggle their responsibilities can be incredibly rewarding. - Your Kid Will Find Their Tribe.
It may take some trial and error, along with a few tears, but your high-schooler will eventually discover their circle of friends. The friendships they form (and sometimes lose) during these years will teach them valuable lessons about relationships. - Your Kid Might Surprise You.
The “straight-A, never-in-trouble” kid may hit a rough patch: bomb a big test, earn a detention, or forget how to study. Remember, this is all part of learning resilience—better to face these challenges now than later in their high school journey. - High School Teachers Are Incredible.
Teachers who work with high schoolers are dedicated and understand the pressures students face. They often work long hours, transforming naive freshmen into college-ready individuals. Their commitment makes them invaluable during these challenging years.
When I dropped off my oldest at high school for the first time, someone said, “High school is a blur. Hold on tight.” They were spot on! I left with a scatterbrained child and picked up a polished young adult four years later. Buckle up, parents; your high school graduate will make you prouder than you ever imagined!
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Summary:
High school can be a daunting transition for both teens and parents, but with patience, understanding, and a good sense of humor, the experience can be rewarding. Your freshman will grow and change dramatically over four years, and while there may be challenges, there are also incredible opportunities for growth, friendship, and independence.